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Today’s my birthday. For the most part I’m spending it away from the computer. Gotta check email and LOLcats before venturing out into the real world right?
After that Mr. Radical and I will be eating our fill of our favorite food-sushi.
Posted by Vixen as Musings at 1:29 PM CST
It’s a new year and time for a new calendar. If you haven’t gotten yourself one yet why not buy the New York City Sex Bloggers Calendar? Not only is it a sexy calendar, it’s for a good cause. The proceeds go to Sex Work Awareness, “an organization that trains sex workers in media skills and educates the public about issues that affect people who work in the sex industry”.
Posted by Vixen as Sexy Sensations, Activism, Sex Workers at 11:35 PM CST
From their site:
The Memory Hole exists to preserve and spread material that is in danger of being lost, is hard to find, or is not widely known. This includes:
• Government files
• Corporate memos
• Court documents (incl. lawsuits and transcripts)
• Police reports and eyewitness statements
• Congressional testimony
• Reports (governmental and non-governmental)
• Maps, patents, Web pages
• Photographs, video, and sound recordings
• News articles
• Books (and portions of books)
The emphasis is on material that exposes things that we’re not supposed to know (or that we’re supposed to forget).
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It’s easy to get sucked into the Memory Hole and lose track of time. There’s a lot of interesting material over there. I wish that mainstream media reported on the sort of things that the MH covers.
Posted by Vixen as Activism at 9:36 PM CST
A PSO friend called me one day with a referral. She had a client who had tried several different ladies, and as it turned out several services, with bad results. After he started a call Disappointed Client complained about the lady and asked to be passed on to someone else. From what I gathered there was a chain of us passing this guy along to each other. Now it was my turn.
I asked what his problem was. My friend said DC made a big deal about having total honesty.
Total honesty? No client wants total honesty. The whole point in calling a phone sex operator is to have your fantasy acted out. Some clients want you to pretend to be turned on but I believe that’s just part of the acting. I strongly suspected DC had a fantasy of failure. He would find a new girl, uncover a perceived flaw and then “toss” her away-fulfilling some sort of belief that no woman was good enough. But I wanted to stay open minded. Maybe my theory was dead wrong. Sometimes a client and I just don’t click. Maybe DC just had a string of bad PSO matches.
At first I let DC talk for a long time while I remained quiet. He needed to vent about his past calls. I said “hmm” and “yes” in all the appropriate places while he went on and on about how dishonest all the other girls were, including my friend. Over and over again he kept saying no one was ever honest with him.
Then he changed course and asked what I was wearing. During his anti-PSO tirade I chose my tactic. He wanted honesty? I’d give him complete, 100% honesty. I told him that I was PMSing and bloated so I had on a tie-dyed long sleeve shirt and some cotton yoga pants. DC was thrilled. “Yes! See you get it. I don’t want you to say you’re wearing lingerie. I want to know what you really have on.”
I wasn’t convinced his happiness would last and figured it wouldn’t be long before he found fault with me. DC asked about my fantasies and fetishes. I told him I was into spanking. His former enthusiasm started to wane. “But I don’t like spanking” he whined. At this point I was feeling annoyed. You can’t ask for honesty and then complain about the honest answer! I purred back, “But DC you wanted me to be completely honest with you. I could pretend that I only fantasize about threesomes, that’s a popular request.” I put a little girl giggle at the end-a nice combo of bitchiness and sweetness.
DC agreed that honesty was what he wanted. He switched back to his fantasies but quickly went back to his PSO complaints. Why would he pay for a call only to complain about past calls? It didn’t really matter-I mostly to rest my voice and concentrate on my knitting.
He seemed to like abruptly changing course. After a long string of complaints he asked “How about you get undressed now and masturbate for me?”
If I could have figured out DC’s taste I could have fake masturbated and fake cummed for him. But my PSO sense told me it was the masturbation part of the call where most ladies failed. Fake cumming is both easy and difficult. Easy because moaning takes minimumal effort but hard because you have to “cum” in a way that suits your clients tastes.
DC didn’t give any hints to his tastes. Some clients are guarded about their real desires and we PSOs have to play psychic to uncover them. But I didn’t detect any clues.
Having no idea what he wanted I decided to stick with my original plan-complete honesty. “No, I don’t feel like masturbating right now,” I told him.
DC asked why not. I told him I was knitting a sock and that I was in the middle of turning the heel. This required concentration and I didn’t want to put down my knitting to masturbate. There was a long silence. Did I really just say that to a client? I had to stifle laughter.
“Well, what if I try to turn you on?” DC asked. I told him to go for it and kept knitting. Ignoring everything I had told him about what turned me on DC went into a sexual fantasy that sounded like the plot of a generic porno.
“How about now? Are you ready to masturbate?” DC asked.
Maybe it was his tone that inspired my cruel honesty. Or maybe it was his generic fantasy. More likely it was his PSO bashing and history of bad calls. “Sorry, that doesn’t turn me on. My sock is still much more exciting.”
Now DC got pissy. He complained that I wasn’t turned on and playing with myself. I countered his complaints with his original request. “DC, you wanted me to be totally honest with you. I could tell you I was turned on and fingering myself but then I’d be lying. Don’t you want me to tell you the truth?”
We went back and forth like this for awhile. The more pissy he got the more sickening sweet my voice got. I was finding the whole thing extremely funny. He finally ended the call and told me that he was going to find a PSO that was interested in cumming that day. I sweetly suggested that maybe he didn’t want complete honesty and maybe he just wanted to hear a woman moan. He ignored my comment, thanked me for being honest and then hung up.
That was my one and only call with DC. Another PSO friend did a call with DC and tried fake masturbating for him. Not surprisingly, he was also disappointed in her and asked her to recommend someone else. I doubt he’ll ever get the honest and satisfying call he’s looking for.
Sex Work And Honesty Series
Sex Work And Honesty: Being Childfree
Posted by Vixen as PSO Confessions at 9:52 PM CST
“Is that a dick or is that a dick?”
-regular client who likes me to watch him jerk off on his webcam
Posted by Vixen as Quote Book at 12:56 PM CST
It’s a new year and we’re finally down to the last weeks of the Bush Administration! Backwards Bush has a handy countdown clock here. I’m not happy with all of Obama’s cabinet picks but I’m so relieved Bush is finally leaving.
Posted by Vixen as News at 10:24 PM CST
Babeland sent me the Entice Lube to review.
I’m picky with lube. As much as I love the idea of scented or flavored lube, in real life I find them annoying. When I squirted some Entice lube onto my finger I was pleasantly surprised by it’s lack of scent. And there was no flavor. It just tasted like-well, lube really. No scent, no flavor. So far it was a win win.
But how does it work? Quite nicely! It stays wet for awhile and you don’t really notice it’s there. Which to me is a good thing. I want my lube to just work and I don’t want it to be distracting.
Plus it comes in pretty glass and has an easy to use squirter. The Entice Lube is a winner in my book.
Posted by Vixen as Reviews at 1:06 PM CST
This For The Girls model is rocking a nice grunge look here.
Posted by Vixen as Sexy Sensations at 8:24 PM CST
I haven’t posted a Sugasm request over here in awhile so figured it was that time.
Submissions for Sugasm #156 close at 11:59pm PST Thursday. The new Sugasm will go up Monday. If you’d like your blog featured, send us the title and permalink to your best sex blog entry for the week. The Sugasm submission form isn’t working so please email your submission to me directly at radicalvixenatgmaildotcom
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Purple Passion courtesy of long-distance sub.
Posted by Vixen as Sugasm at 2:03 AM CST
From the BBC:
Pakistan mourners honour Bhutto
“Tens of thousands of people have gathered at the mausoleum of Pakistan’s former PM Benazir Bhutto to mark the first anniversary of her assassination.
Ceremonies in Garhi Khuda Bakhsh, southern Pakistan, are expected to include prayers, poetry and speeches.
Mrs Bhutto was killed in a suicide bomb and gun attack in Rawalpindi, near Islamabad, after an election rally.
UN Secretary General Ban Ki-Moon says he expects an independent inquiry into her death to be set up soon.”
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I hadn’t realized it had been a year. The BBC also has a related piece-Remembering Bhutto one year on
Posted by Vixen as News at 9:54 PM CST
