Shoot ‘em if you got ‘em.

(Damn that’s a sexy gun.)

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Traditionally the week leading up to Christmas is pretty busy. Clients want to get in one more call before the holidays hit. The time between Christmas and New Year’s is normally dead. My phone will only ring a few times a day. This year the week before Christmas was dead. Now I’m slammed. I’ve been on the phone so much my voice is getting tired. I’m not sure why it’s reversed. Maybe the wifeys are all out shopping for after Christmas specials?

Normal blogging to return soon.

Posted by Vixen as PSO Confessions at 10:58 PM CST

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From Daily Mail:
Pope’s exorcist squads will wage war on Satan

“The Pope has ordered his bishops to set up exorcism squads to tackle the rise of Satanism.

Vatican chiefs are concerned at what they see as an increased interest in the occult.”

(snip)

“Father Paolo Scarafoni, who lectures on the Vatican’s exorcism course, said interest in Satanism and the occult has grown as people lost faith with the church.

He added: “People suffer and think that turning to the Devil can help solve their problems. We are being bombarded by requests for exorcisms.”

The Vatican is particularly concerned that young people are being exposed to the influence of Satanic sects through rock music and the Internet.”

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Man, Pope Benedict always looks scary to me. This new Satan Squad seems like such a waste. One of the commenters summed it up best. “Well.. what a brilliant idea. As if there’s nothing wrong in the world.” Exactly! Aren’t there more pressing problems in the world? To say nothing of how people blame Satan instead of taking responsibility for their actions.

Posted by Vixen as News at 10:34 PM CST

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“It sure was fun talking to you last night. The parts that I remember well.”
-regular client who drinks heavily during calls

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I’ve had some readers ask about working during Christmas. Do I do many calls? What sort of clients call during the holidays?

Typically I’ll get a couple calls on Christmas Eve and 1 or 2 on Christmas Day. If the caller is not a long time regular they usually apologize for bothering me during a holiday. I tell them I don’t celebrate and that I already celebrated Winter Solstice several days ago. I hear relief in their voice that I’m available to talk. While I get the occasional married man sneaking away from his family for a quick call, most of the Christmas callers are lonely men.

The majority of them don’t mention the holiday after that initial bit. We’ll jump into the fantasy and their orgasm usually is intense. Afterwards I’ll often hear how much “they needed that”. These clients almost always thank me profusely for talking to them during Christmas.

A few talk about the loneliness of the holidays. They talk about estranged families or how their wives get the kids this year. They blow off steam about how their families pressure them to couple up. Or how their parents are pressuring them to have grandchildren.

These calls are some of my favorites. Though they often tug on my heartstrings I feel like this is true sex counseling. Most of my job is getting the guy off while talking sexy. That’s fine-it’s what I do. But these calls are different. I feel like I really help the caller. I provide common ground when before he thought he was the only one feeling Grinch-like during the holidays. I provide company on what would otherwise be a miserable day. Calls like these validate sex work for me. Sure, a great orgasm or hot fantasy is an accomplishment but it’s the human connection that strikes a deeper chord with me.

Now for full disclosure-I don’t work on Christmas for purely altruistic reasons. Part of it is my passive aggressiveness. I get annoyed that I should stop my normal life for Christmas. Many months ago my friend Sera posted on her (now defunct) blog about heteronormality. She was rightly annoyed at a party when others assumed incorrect beliefs about her sexuality, politics and religion. Could there be something similar when others assume you celebrate Christmas? Christmanormality perhaps?

Really, it’s not a big deal if someone wishes me a Merry Christmas. From a betting standpoint the odds are pretty good that I do celebrate. It’s just after a month of having Christmas seemingly forced upon me whenever I step outside the house-the endless peppy holiday music, the decorations on every conceivable product, tons of dead trees propped up as decorations, the endless questions of how I’m celebrating or visiting family-I get a little edgy.

It’s that edginess that prompts me to work. It’s a harmless rebellion but it makes me feel pretty good. Plus I give solace to some lonely souls. And that is what the holiday spirit is about.

Reality Check Series:
Reality Check: Getting Sick
Reality Check: Lessons Learned From Clients
Reality Check: Eating Food
Reality Check: Handling Long Calls

Posted by Vixen as PSO Confessions at 7:58 PM CST

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While I may not celebrate Christmas, I’m definitely into Christmas porn.

Posted by Vixen as Sexy Sensations at 4:39 PM CST

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From The Raw Story:
Descendants of Sitting Bull, Crazy Horse break away from US
“The Lakota Indians, who gave the world legendary warriors Sitting Bull and Crazy Horse, have withdrawn from treaties with the United States, leaders said Wednesday.

“We are no longer citizens of the United States of America and all those who live in the five-state area that encompasses our country are free to join us,” long-time Indian rights activist Russell Means told a handful of reporters and a delegation from the Bolivian embassy, gathered in a church in a run-down neighborhood of Washington for a news conference.

A delegation of Lakota leaders delivered a message to the State Department on Monday, announcing they were unilaterally withdrawing from treaties they signed with the federal government of the United States, some of them more than 150 years old.”

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“Withdrawing from the treaties was entirely legal, Means said.

“This is according to the laws of the United States, specifically article six of the constitution,” which states that treaties are the supreme law of the land, he said.

“It is also within the laws on treaties passed at the Vienna Convention and put into effect by the US and the rest of the international community in 1980. We are legally within our rights to be free and independent,” said Means.”

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I find this fascinating. I would think the Lakota Nation could secede legally. Couldn’t a US state secede too? Mind you I don’t think Kansas is leaving anytime soon.

Though the Lakotas sound like they have the legalities straightened out I wonder how this will play out. Will the US gov’t really let them do this? Reading Howard Zinn leaves me pessimistic. So does the most recent Wounded Knee.

Visit the Lakota Freedom Delegation’s website for more info.

Posted by Vixen as News at 11:03 PM CST

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Merry Yule to those that celebrate. Blessed be.

Posted by Vixen as Musings at 11:07 PM CST

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“My mouth is like a love nest because it’s like a woman has a mother goose laying an egg in her nest.”
-Client said this while talking about oral sex.

Sometimes I have no words to respond to statements like this one. I stayed silent and he kept rambling on. He seemed happy so I must have been doing something right.

Posted by Vixen as Quote Book at 11:12 PM CST

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