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February 29th, 2008

Fetish Fridays: Hirsutism

Hairy Woman

From Wikipedia:
“Hirsutism (from Latin hirsutus = shaggy, hairy) is defined as excessive and increased hair growth in women in locations where the occurrence of terminal hair normally is minimal or absent. It refers to a male pattern of body hair (androgenic hair) and it is therefore primarily of cosmetic and psychological concern.”

While I don’t advertise myself as a hirsute I have done my share of hirsute fetish calls. This is for two reasons-I don’t shave my pussy and I’m a hippy.

Many men bemoan the current state of pornography. They hate the dyed hair, the plastic tits and the perfectly shaved pussies. I agree. It’s the reason I like retro porn like Retro Raunch or alt porn like Hippie Goddess. The women are natural looking. I prefer a hairy pussy-it’s prettier and feels sexy. Once in college I shaved off all my pussy hair and hated it. I’ve never shaven it again.

Clients that love hairy pussy do calls centering around oral worship. I go into great detail about my pussy hair-it’s length, color, texture. I describe how the hair curls around my panties because there is so much. In the fantasy the guy runs his tongue over and over my pussy hair, worshipping the hair for longer than he licks my pussy lips.

Some clients want a hairier woman. As a hippie chick I fit the bill. I talk about my hairy armpits and legs. These calls center around oral worship but it’s an overall body worship. Fantasies revolve around the client giving me a tongue bath and feeling my body hair brush against his cheeks, lips and tongue.

How hairy am I in reality? I tend to shave once a month, maybe twice. Normally I have hair but it’s more fuzzy than “gorilla girl” length. Though I never shave my pussy I do give it a trim with scissors every few months. One client with a hisuite fetish thinks he’s the luckiest hair slut in the world. Why? Because after I’ve trimmed up my pussy hair I give the clippings to him. He tells me he pours them on his face, cups them in his hands and licks them and sprinkles them over his cock while he masturbates.

Now, how’s that for reclaim, reuse, recycle?

Fetish Fridays
Fetish Fridays: Sploshing
Fetish Fridays: Robot Sex
Fetish Fridays: Humiliation
Fetish Fridays: Glory Holes
Fetish Fridays: Shoe Fetish
Fetish Fridays: Achoo!
Fetish Fridays: Tickle Fetish
Fetish Fridays: Doggy Boy
Fetish Fridays: Smoking Fetish
Fetish Fridays: Latex Love
Fetish Fridays: Furries
Fetish Fridays: Exhibitionism
Fetish Fridays: Chastity
Fetish Fridays: Pony Play

Posted by Vixen as PSO Confessions, Fetish Fridays at 9:21 AM CST

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September 28th, 2007

Fetish Fridays: Pony Play

JT Stockroom's pony play mask

From Deviant Desires:
(note: when you click on the Deviant Desires link it takes you to their site map, click on “Pony Play”)
“Ponygirls and ponyboys may act as show ponies, cart ponies or riding ponies. Show ponies receive gait training, where they attempt to imitate the canter, trot or run of a “real” show horse.”

(snip)

“Although some human ponies enjoy being whipped and beaten, most prefer a more loving, affectionate relationship. As one ponygirl puts it, “I wouldn’t beat my own horses, so why should I be beaten? I am a proud and beautiful animal!” Some ponyboys and girls thrill to positive reinforcement and firm leadership rather than punishment, and may select favorite treats such as sugar cubes and carrot sticks.”

Through the years I’ve gotten a handful of pony play calls. I know a bit about the BDSM world of pony play. The calls I get about ponies don’t really resemble it. I get the sissy ponies. My readers that were children of the ’80s probably remember My Little Pony. (I had a lot of those ponies and loved them.) Playing with sissy ponies is very similar to how I played with My Little Ponies as a girl.

I do up their hair with ribbons and bows. Sometimes we dye the hair to look more feminine. We go to the pony salon (See, Erectionland accommodates everyone!) to get his hooves painted, usually with glitter nail polish. We redesign the stable in soft pastel colors to make it tailored for a girly horse.

We have special pony tea parties where other Mistresses join us with their sissy ponies. Inevitably we mistresses decide that the sissy ponies need to put on a little show for us. We get a male slave to join us. He’s dressed up as a male horse stud and fucks all the sissy ponies for our pleasure. The mistresses get so turned on that we grab the pony harnesses to force the sissy ponies to worship our pussies after the pony orgy. Sissies and pony sissies tend to be enjoyable calls because the clients treat it as “fun time”.

The mass orgy of course never happened when I played with My Little Ponies. My Barbie’s though got pretty kinky as I wrote about in this post.

Fetish Fridays
Fetish Fridays: Sploshing
Fetish Fridays: Robot Sex
Fetish Fridays: Humiliation
Fetish Fridays: Glory Holes
Fetish Fridays: Shoe Fetish
Fetish Fridays: Achoo!
Fetish Fridays: Tickle Fetish
Fetish Fridays: Doggy Boy
Fetish Fridays: Smoking Fetish
Fetish Fridays: Latex Love
Fetish Fridays: Furries
Fetish Fridays: Exhibitionism
Fetish Fridays: Chastity

Posted by Vixen as PSO Confessions, Fetish Fridays at 11:47 PM CDT

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June 15th, 2007

Fetish Fridays: Chastity

Male chastity device

When I first got into the kink world chastity wasn’t considered a fetish. Even when I became a pso it was a rare topic. Early on I had a few callers that were into chastity and orgasm control but generally not many clients were interested. In the last couple of years chastity has become more popular and consequentially I have more callers who consider it a fetish.

Chastity calls naturally pair up with orgasm control. Clients go into detail why they feel they deserve this treatment. The reasons are varied. Some that I hear frequently are they masturbate too much, they are sissies that need it as part of their feminization routine, they feel it will make them more attentive slaves. Typically chastity is used on and off during a slave’s training the theory being that control his orgasm will make him become a better behaved slave.

Sometimes the chastity is solely the focus of the call. Lots of time is spent on describing how different chastity devices will fit on the cock and balls. If asked my favorite I tend to pick the cb2000. I’ve heard good reviews about it and most callers have heard of it before.

The chastity tends to become a ritual like event. In the fantasies I shave the guy to emphasize his entrapment. Often my many mistress friends will be in attendance to watch me put the device on. Naturally, they are all dressed in sexy corsets, short skirts, stockings and heels. After I review the numerous reasons the slave must be put into chastity I lock him up. Depending on the client I keep the key or destroy the key in front of him while he moans and cries.

To further rub in the point I make the slave worship all of the mistresses pussies, mine included. Again, depending on the clients’ interests he’s made to also lick everyone’s ass and sometimes takes golden and/or brown showers. Then more worthier male slaves enter the scene for the mistresses and I to fuck in front of the chastised slave. Some clients like it when the male slaves fuck them as well.

The chastity fetish calls wrap up with me describing how he’ll never be released from chastity. While I detail how he’ll live the rest of his life never having another orgasm he cums. I find the irony entertaining.

For an interesting article on chastity in general Wikipedia has an entry here.

Fetish Fridays
Fetish Fridays: Sploshing
Fetish Fridays: Robot Sex
Fetish Fridays: Humiliation
Fetish Fridays: Glory Holes
Fetish Fridays: Shoe Fetish
Fetish Fridays: Achoo!
Fetish Fridays: Tickle Fetish
Fetish Fridays: Doggy Boy
Fetish Fridays: Smoking Fetish
Fetish Fridays: Latex Love
Fetish Fridays: Furries
Fetish Fridays: Exhibitionism

Posted by Vixen as PSO Confessions, Fetish Fridays at 10:57 PM CDT

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March 30th, 2007

Fetish Fridays: Exhibitionism

Hot Latex Dress

From Wikipedia:
“Exhibitionism (also known as Lady Godiva syndrome and Apodysophilia) is the psychological need and pattern of behavior to exhibit naked parts of the body to other people. In exhibitionism the individual shows a tendency to an extravagant, usually at least partially sexually inspired behavior to captivate the attention of others in a display of a body part, or parts, that would otherwise be left covered under clothing in nearly all other cultural circumstances.

(snip)

Exhibitionists who view exhibitionism as a lifestyle as opposed to a rare thrill carefully select their target audience and make the exposure brief, inconspicuous and apparently unintentional. It is a fetish, and many such practitioners see it as an art form.”

For a related item see Violet Blue’s excellent article Public Sex.

While researching this Fetish Friday I found Dick Flash, a forum for exhibitionists. From the information section:
“What’s the purpose of this site?

I set it up because I am a practising (practice makes perfect!) exhibitionist who is interested in learning more about the “condition” from a medical point of view as well as having meaningful discussions and sharing experiences. I found precious few (i.e. none) sites on the Net that cater for my exact requirements. Mostly “exhibitionist sites” are packed full of photos of naked women in public (or more commonly not-so-public) areas. While such sites would satisfy the normal hormone enraged teenager, exhibitionists themselves find it does not suit their particular desires.”

Mr. Radical and I once ran into some exhibitionists mid performance. We were with a group of people having dinner on the beach. Tired of the conversation and crowd we went for a quiet stroll. We walked for a ways down the beach and saw a man and woman in the water. At first I didn’t realize they were fucking, but as we continued down the beach it became obvious that the woman was strattling the guy. I can be quite naïve at times. I commented “Wait I think they’re…” to which my husband answered yes while laughing at me. We turned around to go back to our group.

Walking back the way we came we noticed a car parked near the water. There was a man sitting in the driver’s seat and the window was rolled down. He was masturbating while staring at the couple fucking. Were they aware of him? Did they know each other? Were they doing a show for him? There was a vibe in the air that indicated the couple and man were connected. It just felt like the event was planned that way.

Fetish Fridays
Fetish Fridays: Sploshing
Fetish Fridays: Robot Sex
Fetish Fridays: Humiliation
Fetish Fridays: Glory Holes
Fetish Fridays: Shoe Fetish
Fetish Fridays: Achoo!
Fetish Fridays: Tickle Fetish
Fetish Fridays: Doggy Boy
Fetish Fridays: Smoking Fetish
Fetish Fridays: Latex Love
Fetish Fridays: Furries

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December 29th, 2006

Fetish Fridays: Furries

Furries

Furries is an interesting fetish because it is so unique. It is one of the fetishes I have never talked about on a call.

From Wikipedia’s entry on Transformation
“Furries

Furries, also known as anthros (short for anthropomorphic animals), are usually depicted as half-human, half-animal hybrids, with the appealing characteristics of both highlighted. Furries are usually bipedal and have the ability to walk, talk, think, and essentially do anything like a human. Many in the TF community, even those with an interest in TFs other than animal, adopt a made-up identity as a furry, known as a fursona. Like the TF community, not all Furries are involved with the fetish aspects of anthropomorphic media. There are some large differences between the communities, and a great number of furries do not consider themselves part of the TF community. However, the overlap is broad enough to warrant mention on this page. For more on this distinction, see Yiff: Debates and Sex and furry fandom.”

The LA Alternative Press has an older article about Furries that I think is worth a read:
My Life As a Furry

Fetish Fridays
Fetish Fridays: Sploshing
Fetish Fridays: Robot Sex
Fetish Fridays: Humiliation
Fetish Fridays: Glory Holes
Fetish Fridays: Shoe Fetish
Fetish Fridays: Achoo!
Fetish Fridays: Tickle Fetish
Fetish Fridays: Doggy Boy
Fetish Fridays: Smoking Fetish
Fetish Fridays: Latex Love

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September 29th, 2006

Fetish Fridays: Latex Love

Sexy latex gloves on sexy ladies.

From Wikipedia:
Latex and PVC fetishism

“Latex fetishism is the fetishistic attraction to people wearing latex clothing, or in certain cases, to the garments themselves. Sometimes this is called rubber fetishism also, as latex is closely-related to rubber (the latter usually being thicker and less shiny, more matte). Latex or rubber fetishists sometimes refer to themselves as “Rubberists”.

(snip)
One reason why latex, and other tight shiny fabrics may be fetishised is perhaps that the garment forms a “second skin” that acts as a fetishistic surrogate for the wearer’s own skin. Thus, wearers of skin-tight latex or PVC garments may be perceived by the viewer as being naked, or simply coated in a shiny substance like paint. Latex and PVC can also be polished to be shiny and can also be produced in bright colours, adding further visual stimulus to add to the physical sensations produced by the material. The tightness of the garments may also be viewed as a kind of sexual bondage. The smell of latex rubber is also a turn-on for some rubber fetishists, and such garments are usually impregnated with chemicals to enhance the odour. Rubberists also enjoy the idea of exhibitionism and some fantasise about going out in public wearing fetish attire. Some do this, especially in the more liberal areas (Berlin, New York etc).”

The above article mentioned The International Association of Rubberists. If you would like to find people who share your interest in latex and rubber I suggest going there. Also, 3XL: Lust, Love and Latex is a fetishist blog that has been around since 2002. If you love latex definitely check out the site.

I don’t have a latex fetish myself but I can appreciate how the material makes a body sexy. I never owned a piece of latex clothing until I had worked the phones for a few years. Many of my callers have a latex fetish so I decided to buy a latex dress for a photo shoot.

Mr. Radical and I went to a latex store while on a road trip down the west coast. There were racks of latex and rubber outfits to choose from. The clothes seemed so unappealing at first glance because they hung limp on the rack. Once I tried on a few outfits my perception completely changed.

The cute saleslady had to help me into the latex gear because I had never done it. Stories of her coming into the dressing room to pull down the tight dress played heavily into future calls. I bought a dress that molded to my body. The way it emphasized my breasts, hips and ass was pretty impressive.

Latex clothing is not simple to get on. To put on my latex dress I have to have an assistant. My hubby lubes up my body and gently but firmly pulls the dress into the right spots on my body. When I’m wearing it my mobility is restricted and I immediately start sweating.

That being said I love this dress. I looked really sexy in the photos. I don’t have a latex fetish because I didn’t get turned on wearing the dress. But I can understand how it excites people. It always looks sexy and shows off curves beautifully.

Fetish Fridays
Fetish Fridays: Sploshing
Fetish Fridays: Robot Sex
Fetish Fridays: Humiliation
Fetish Fridays: Glory Holes
Fetish Fridays: Shoe Fetish
Fetish Fridays: Achoo!
Fetish Fridays: Tickle Fetish
Fetish Fridays: Doggy Boy
Fetish Fridays: Smoking Fetish

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August 4th, 2006

Fetish Fridays: Smoking Fetish

Raven haired beauty smoking

From Wikipedia:
“Smoking fetishism (capnolagnia) is a sexual fetish (paraphilia), consisting of the fetishisation of the smoking of tobacco, including cigarettes, cigars, pipes or even ash trays. It is thought that most smoking fetishists are heterosexual men, though there are also groups of homosexual and bisexual men and women who have expressed similar interests in the fetish.

Among heterosexual men, the fetish is often associated with oral fixations and fellatio (see oral sex).”

In my first years as a pso I had my share of phone blunders. One moment involved a man with a smoking fetish. He called me and at first would only share that he wanted to be dominated. Vague men are always a frustration. I’d pick a man with a highly detailed fantasy any day; they’re much easier call to do.

The vague man and I began our call. The more I talked the more he opened up about his interests. Soon he wanted me to be the stern aunt who spanked him. He had been caught going threw my panty drawer and this wasn’t the first time I had caught him being naughty.

Spanking calls are some of my favorite calls to do. I felt comfortable with the scene and jumped into the role. The fantasy was moving along well when he suddenly asks me if I smoke.

I don’t smoke. Years ago I tried a cigarette to see what it was like but I’ve never wanted to smoke. Growing up I watched my mother chain smoke. I saw how the addiction affected her health and the pains she took every time she tried to quit. Because of her I’ve never become a smoker thankfully.

Not thinking about his question I told him I didn’t smoke. “Yes, you do,” he told me. “You smoke Virginia Slims Auntie.” Mean Auntie had to be a smoker now. Not wanting to spoil the good rapport I played along.

So I faked it. It must have been quite the sight, me sucking on a pen cap and blowing out in exaggerated puffs to imitate a smoker. I felt ridiculous.

If I could have kept up this act there wouldn’t have been a problem. But in future calls this man wanted me to tell him about my smoking. In hindsight I should have reminded him I wasn’t a smoker. Did I? No, I thought I could fake it again. I had faked it in the fantasy right?

Problem was he knew about the idiosyncrasies of smoking and I didn’t. He quizzed me about when I started smoking, what kind of cigarettes I smoked, what kind of lighter I had, the type of ashtray I used. I was in over my head and knew it.

Thankfully he didn’t call out my blunder. He shifted back to a mean Auntie spanking him. This time Auntie didn’t smoke. I tried to recover but smoking is his fetish-the call felt flat without it. He’s occasionally called me since but every time he’s forgotten I’m a nonsmoker. I tried faking it once more but again it was obvious.

Now when a client asks if I smoke I tell them no and refer them to another pso who does. If it comes up mid fantasy I may incorporate smoking into the scene but otherwise it’s best to admit I don’t smoke as soon as I’m asked.

Fetish Fridays
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Fetish Fridays: Glory Holes
Fetish Fridays: Shoe Fetish
Fetish Fridays: Achoo!
Fetish Fridays: Tickle Fetish
Fetish Fridays: Doggy Boy

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May 19th, 2006

Fetish Fridays: Doggy Boy

Doggy play leather mask.

From Vamp’s page on Animal Training:
“Animal training does NOT include real animals. It is a style of play in which a person is consensually transformed and trained as a beast. It is sometimes a form of roleplay that is not taken very seriously but it can also be a form of play that can be very spiritual and meaningful for the people involved. Sometimes animal training is obviously sexual and sometimes it isn’t.”

Wikipedia calls it human animal roleplay:

“Human animal roleplay (also called petplay, ponyplay or pup-play) is a form of erotic sexual role-play where one or more of the participants takes on the role of a real or imaginary animal in character, including appropriate mannerisms and behavior, and sometimes a partner will act as another animal, or in a sexual context may take the role of rider, trainer or caretaker (or sometimes breeding partner). The principal theme of human-animal roleplay is usually the voluntary or involuntary reduction (or transformation) of a human being to animal status, and focus on the altered mind-space created.”

I have a few callers who are into animal play. All of them want to be dogs. One of them called me recently.

Doggy Boy was the first one to call me about animal play so I named him thusly. He likes me to train him to be my bitch. I instruct him to crawl on all fours and to lift his leg to pee. He eats his food out of a dog bowl.

The main part of his fantasy is the sexual training. DB helps me train male dogs to be breeding studs. I bring large male dogs over to fuck him. Since he’s a sterile female dog he’s the perfect test run.

The dogs’ owners are all sexy Mistresses naturally. We stand around DB and laugh at him while he gets fucked by dog after dog. Sometimes the dogs are well trained and do their duty-quick fucking and then a dismount. But other times there are dogs that are not well trained at all. These ones scratch his back with their nails and nibble on his ears.

The above scenario makes DB a very happy puppy and very aroused. When he cums he always remembers to ask first. “May this puppy cum Mistress, may this puppy cum?” I grant him permission and he begins panting. He starts to bark as he’s getting closer and his barks turn to howls when he actually cums.

When we first started talking I didn’t know anything about Puppy Play. Thankfully DB was very helpful. He was so relieved that I would talk about his fetish that he explained his fantasy in great detail, telling me exactly what he wanted to hear.

I don’t really understand the appeal of Puppy Play but I seem to do well with doggie clients. I am grateful for callers like Doggy Boy because he was helpful in the beginning and he always thanks me profusely after each call.

Fetish Fridays
Fetish Fridays: Sploshing
Fetish Fridays: Robot Sex
Fetish Fridays: Humiliation
Fetish Fridays: Glory Holes
Fetish Fridays: Shoe Fetish
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Fetish Fridays: Tickle Fetish

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April 14th, 2006

Fetish Fridays: Tickle Fetish

Naked women tickling each other on the floor.

I don’t get too many callers with a tickle fetish mainly because it’s hard to do over the phone. If a guy wants to be tickled it’s really something to be done in person.

But there are guys who want to hear women being tickled. These are the ones who call me. Luckily for them, I’m naturally very ticklish. And when I’m tickled I giggle and laugh really loud.

My first tickle client wanted to jerk off while listening to me being tickled. I put him on hold and asked my husband if he’d mind tickling me while on a call. He thought this was funny and agreed to do it.

This was my easiest call ever. I sat on the couch, propped my bare feet on my hubbies lap and let him tickle me. I laughed into my headset while Tickle Guy moaned. He didn’t last long. I laughed some more, he moaned harder and came.

He was embarrassed at the end although he did thank me before rushing a goodbye and hanging up. Tickle Guy called me a couple of times after that. It was always the same routine. I’d grab the husband, he’d tickle me for about five minutes and TG would cum.

Tickle fetishists come in all flavors. Some like bondage and tickling, some like tickling with feathers. For more info check out The Tickling Media Forum.

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Fetish Fridays: Glory Holes
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Fetish Fridays: Achoo!

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February 10th, 2006

Fetish Fridays: Achoo!

Sneeze fetish

From Wikipedia:
“The sneeze fetish is a sexual fetish that is characterized by a person’s interest, pleasure or sexual attraction to other’s sneezing, and/or a person’s own sneezing.”

While I have never gotten a sneeze fetish request I’ve heard several pso stories about them. Usually the callers like the woman to sneeze over and over during a call. The fantasy involves a scenario in which she is caused to sneeze-a cold, sniffing pepper, pollen in the air. I’d be an interesting experience but I wouldn’t want to have to do it as a regular call. Just think what having to sniff pepper several times a week to induce sneezing would feel like.

From FS View comes a news story about sneeze fetishists. It’s an older write up but I’m linking it here because I’m impressed by how non-judgmental the story was about such an unusual, and often misunderstood, fetish.

Sneeze fetishists unite
“For a group known as “sneeze fetishists,” sneezing is a turn on. Experiencing the act of sneezing arouses these individuals on multiple levels.”

Fetish Fridays
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Fetish Fridays: Robot Sex
Fetish Fridays: Humiliation
Fetish Fridays: Glory Holes
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