From Wikipedia:
“Smoking fetishism (capnolagnia) is a sexual fetish (paraphilia), consisting of the fetishisation of the smoking of tobacco, including cigarettes, cigars, pipes or even ash trays. It is thought that most smoking fetishists are heterosexual men, though there are also groups of homosexual and bisexual men and women who have expressed similar interests in the fetish.
Among heterosexual men, the fetish is often associated with oral fixations and fellatio (see oral sex).”
In my first years as a pso I had my share of phone blunders. One moment involved a man with a smoking fetish. He called me and at first would only share that he wanted to be dominated. Vague men are always a frustration. I’d pick a man with a highly detailed fantasy any day; they’re much easier call to do.
The vague man and I began our call. The more I talked the more he opened up about his interests. Soon he wanted me to be the stern aunt who spanked him. He had been caught going threw my panty drawer and this wasn’t the first time I had caught him being naughty.
Spanking calls are some of my favorite calls to do. I felt comfortable with the scene and jumped into the role. The fantasy was moving along well when he suddenly asks me if I smoke.
I don’t smoke. Years ago I tried a cigarette to see what it was like but I’ve never wanted to smoke. Growing up I watched my mother chain smoke. I saw how the addiction affected her health and the pains she took every time she tried to quit. Because of her I’ve never become a smoker thankfully.
Not thinking about his question I told him I didn’t smoke. “Yes, you do,” he told me. “You smoke Virginia Slims Auntie.” Mean Auntie had to be a smoker now. Not wanting to spoil the good rapport I played along.
So I faked it. It must have been quite the sight, me sucking on a pen cap and blowing out in exaggerated puffs to imitate a smoker. I felt ridiculous.
If I could have kept up this act there wouldn’t have been a problem. But in future calls this man wanted me to tell him about my smoking. In hindsight I should have reminded him I wasn’t a smoker. Did I? No, I thought I could fake it again. I had faked it in the fantasy right?
Problem was he knew about the idiosyncrasies of smoking and I didn’t. He quizzed me about when I started smoking, what kind of cigarettes I smoked, what kind of lighter I had, the type of ashtray I used. I was in over my head and knew it.
Thankfully he didn’t call out my blunder. He shifted back to a mean Auntie spanking him. This time Auntie didn’t smoke. I tried to recover but smoking is his fetish-the call felt flat without it. He’s occasionally called me since but every time he’s forgotten I’m a nonsmoker. I tried faking it once more but again it was obvious.
Now when a client asks if I smoke I tell them no and refer them to another pso who does. If it comes up mid fantasy I may incorporate smoking into the scene but otherwise it’s best to admit I don’t smoke as soon as I’m asked.
Fetish Fridays
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Fetish Fridays: Robot Sex
Fetish Fridays: Humiliation
Fetish Fridays: Glory Holes
Fetish Fridays: Shoe Fetish
Fetish Fridays: Achoo!
Fetish Fridays: Tickle Fetish
Fetish Fridays: Doggy Boy
Posted by Vixen as PSO Confessions, Fetish Fridays at 11:58 PM CDT
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From Vamp’s page on Animal Training:
“Animal training does NOT include real animals. It is a style of play in which a person is consensually transformed and trained as a beast. It is sometimes a form of roleplay that is not taken very seriously but it can also be a form of play that can be very spiritual and meaningful for the people involved. Sometimes animal training is obviously sexual and sometimes it isn’t.”
Wikipedia calls it human animal roleplay:
“Human animal roleplay (also called petplay, ponyplay or pup-play) is a form of erotic sexual role-play where one or more of the participants takes on the role of a real or imaginary animal in character, including appropriate mannerisms and behavior, and sometimes a partner will act as another animal, or in a sexual context may take the role of rider, trainer or caretaker (or sometimes breeding partner). The principal theme of human-animal roleplay is usually the voluntary or involuntary reduction (or transformation) of a human being to animal status, and focus on the altered mind-space created.”
I have a few callers who are into animal play. All of them want to be dogs. One of them called me recently.
Doggy Boy was the first one to call me about animal play so I named him thusly. He likes me to train him to be my bitch. I instruct him to crawl on all fours and to lift his leg to pee. He eats his food out of a dog bowl.
The main part of his fantasy is the sexual training. DB helps me train male dogs to be breeding studs. I bring large male dogs over to fuck him. Since he’s a sterile female dog he’s the perfect test run.
The dogs’ owners are all sexy Mistresses naturally. We stand around DB and laugh at him while he gets fucked by dog after dog. Sometimes the dogs are well trained and do their duty-quick fucking and then a dismount. But other times there are dogs that are not well trained at all. These ones scratch his back with their nails and nibble on his ears.
The above scenario makes DB a very happy puppy and very aroused. When he cums he always remembers to ask first. “May this puppy cum Mistress, may this puppy cum?” I grant him permission and he begins panting. He starts to bark as he’s getting closer and his barks turn to howls when he actually cums.
When we first started talking I didn’t know anything about Puppy Play. Thankfully DB was very helpful. He was so relieved that I would talk about his fetish that he explained his fantasy in great detail, telling me exactly what he wanted to hear.
I don’t really understand the appeal of Puppy Play but I seem to do well with doggie clients. I am grateful for callers like Doggy Boy because he was helpful in the beginning and he always thanks me profusely after each call.
Fetish Fridays
Fetish Fridays: Sploshing
Fetish Fridays: Robot Sex
Fetish Fridays: Humiliation
Fetish Fridays: Glory Holes
Fetish Fridays: Shoe Fetish
Fetish Fridays: Achoo!
Fetish Fridays: Tickle Fetish
Posted by Vixen as PSO Confessions, Fetish Fridays at 11:43 PM CDT
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I don’t get too many callers with a tickle fetish mainly because it’s hard to do over the phone. If a guy wants to be tickled it’s really something to be done in person.
But there are guys who want to hear women being tickled. These are the ones who call me. Luckily for them, I’m naturally very ticklish. And when I’m tickled I giggle and laugh really loud.
My first tickle client wanted to jerk off while listening to me being tickled. I put him on hold and asked my husband if he’d mind tickling me while on a call. He thought this was funny and agreed to do it.
This was my easiest call ever. I sat on the couch, propped my bare feet on my hubbies lap and let him tickle me. I laughed into my headset while Tickle Guy moaned. He didn’t last long. I laughed some more, he moaned harder and came.
He was embarrassed at the end although he did thank me before rushing a goodbye and hanging up. Tickle Guy called me a couple of times after that. It was always the same routine. I’d grab the husband, he’d tickle me for about five minutes and TG would cum.
Tickle fetishists come in all flavors. Some like bondage and tickling, some like tickling with feathers. For more info check out The Tickling Media Forum.
Fetish Fridays
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Fetish Fridays: Robot Sex
Fetish Fridays: Humiliation
Fetish Fridays: Glory Holes
Fetish Fridays: Shoe Fetish
Fetish Fridays: Achoo!
Posted by Vixen as PSO Confessions, Fetish Fridays at 10:17 PM CDT
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From Wikipedia:
“The sneeze fetish is a sexual fetish that is characterized by a person’s interest, pleasure or sexual attraction to other’s sneezing, and/or a person’s own sneezing.”
While I have never gotten a sneeze fetish request I’ve heard several pso stories about them. Usually the callers like the woman to sneeze over and over during a call. The fantasy involves a scenario in which she is caused to sneeze-a cold, sniffing pepper, pollen in the air. I’d be an interesting experience but I wouldn’t want to have to do it as a regular call. Just think what having to sniff pepper several times a week to induce sneezing would feel like.
From FS View comes a news story about sneeze fetishists. It’s an older write up but I’m linking it here because I’m impressed by how non-judgmental the story was about such an unusual, and often misunderstood, fetish.
Sneeze fetishists unite
“For a group known as “sneeze fetishists,” sneezing is a turn on. Experiencing the act of sneezing arouses these individuals on multiple levels.”
Fetish Fridays
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Fetish Fridays: Robot Sex
Fetish Fridays: Humiliation
Fetish Fridays: Glory Holes
Fetish Fridays: Shoe Fetish
Posted by Vixen as PSO Confessions, Fetish Fridays at 1:03 AM CST
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From Wikipedia:
“Shoe fetishism, also known as retifism (after Nicolas-Edme Rétif), involves being irrationally or abnormally fixated on shoes or other footwear to the extent it may interfere with sexual expression. Although shoes carry sexual connotations in mainstream culture, this is not generally considered to be shoe fetishism, although it may qualify as a form of partialism.”
A subset of a foot fetish, shoe fetishists get turned on my footwear. Often a shoe fetishist also has a fetish for feet. Worshiping a women’s shoes is in a sense foreplay to the actual foot worship. However, some men only have a desire to worship my shoes. High heels and sexy boots are the most common lusted after items. Occasionally, I’ll get a caller with a desire to suck and lick my dirty tennis shoes.
Shoe fantasies are fun. I like to start out with the submissive naked and tied up in a kneeling position on the floor. I’ve blindfolded him so he can only hear the clicking of my high heeled boots. I remain silent so the click, click, click of the boots invade his brain. I circle around him and his head twists and turns, trying to find me.
He begs for me to take the blindfold off. I refuse. Instead I slide a leg over his shoulder. In the fantasy I’m usually wearing leather boots because the leathery smell intoxicates their senses. I tease them at first, holding the boot far enough away from their mouth so they can’t lick the material but close enough so the rich leather scent fills their nostrils.
When I let them lick my boots I start with heel sucking. They suck it like a little cock-flicking their tongues at the tip, “deep throating” the length of it, licking around the base to please me. When they’ve done a sufficient job with both heels I’ll take off the blindfold to let them admire my shoes. I’ll describe them in detail while they whimper and moan. Sometimes I’ll email them a picture of me wearing said shoes to inspire future calls.
After the heel sucking, the shoe slave works his way up my boots licking every inch. If he wants to worship my feet he takes this time to show off his tongue skills. In this way he proves he’s worthy of worshiping my feet. When I’m talking with a shoe fetishist we solely focus on the boot worship. When his tongue licking pleases me I’ll unbound his hands so he can stroke his cock. I make him fellatiate my heel again while he strokes his cock to orgasm. For good shoe slaves I’ll let them cum on my boot tips. Then I describe pushing his head down and making him lick up his spew, bringing my boots to a polish once again.
Note: For more information about shoe fetishes see Shoe Fetishism and Alt.Sex.Fetish.Feet.
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Fetish Fridays: Robot Sex
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Fetish Fridays: Glory Holes
Posted by Vixen as PSO Confessions, Fetish Fridays at 3:47 PM CST
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From the Glory Holes FAQ at Sexuality.org:
“What is a glory hole?
A glory hole is generally defined as a small fist-sized hole between private video booths in an adult bookstore. It is placed about hip high for the average guy and is just large enough to place a man’s penis through to let the person on the other side perform whatever sexual activity he pleases on it.”
I’ve done a lot of calls featuring glory holes. While there are some porn sites that show women sucking cock, it’s on the whole a male activity. And while gay men certainly use them, my experience has been talking to the married men that have a fetish for the holes of glory. These clients almost always identify as straight. An overwhelming number of them are married.
The appeal, in addition to the anonymous sex of course, is the no strings attached aspect to the glory holes. Married men can have a tryst and go back to their normal lives with their heterosexuality still intact, in their minds.
There’s a whole code of conduct surrounding glory holes. A sample:
“3.2 If you want to be the person who cums:
1. Go into a booth; close and lock the door, if possible.
2. Drop some money in the video machine.
3. Sit if you wish but standing up is the generally accepted indicator that you are not willing to play with anyone else.
4. Expose your genitalia (usually by dropping your pants) and get hard. You will find it more difficult to get someone to play with you if you don’t have at least a half-mast hard-on.
5. Wait for someone to stick their finger through the glory hole.
6. Put a rubber on now if you want. Place your penis through the hole. Some guys will just play with you; others will suck you; a few will want you to penetrate them anally.”
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Fetish Fridays: Humiliation
Posted by Vixen as PSO Confessions, Fetish Fridays at 8:53 PM CST
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From Ask the Therapist via sexuality.org:
“Many SM and DS interactions achieve their erotic edge through the consensual assumption of inequality between Master or Mistress and slave or other property, Dominant and submissive, or other form of Top and bottom. It is an easy call, therefore, to use degradation and humiliation to establish, enforce, or reinforce the presumptive power disparity. In addition, some people enjoy making or emphasizing such distinctions (or having them made or emphasized) by the Top’s belittling, insulting, or otherwise debasing the bottom.”
Many of my callers are turned on by humiliation. Sometimes it’s just light name calling-they’re a slut, whore or naughty boy. Other times it’s a full fledged scene-I strip the submissive down in front of mistress friends, tie him to the coffee table and invite my guests to take turns fucking him with their strap-ons.
Humiliation comes in many forms. A juicy list of ideas can be found at sub-dom.
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Fetish Fridays: Robot Sex
Posted by Vixen as PSO Confessions, Fetish Fridays at 9:20 PM CST
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Robotism-attraction to or the use of robots in sex play. For more information see the Alt.Sex.Fetish.Robots FAQ V 3.0
I’ve only had one client call me about robot sex. He wanted to be strapped down to a machine that fucked and abused him 24/7. This machine also fed him, bathed him and drained his bladder and intestines.
He would start the fantasy as an innocent victim. I was an evil/mad scientist who kidnapped him for my sex machine experiments. The more I described the details of the device-the straps for restraining him, the tubes to collect his fluids-the more he panted and moaned.
This was new territory for me. I made most of it up on the spot, having no prior experience with sex machines or robots. He came hard and loud-I had to turn down my phone volume. At the beginning of the fantasy he pretended to fight, professing to hate the machine. By the end, he was begging for more, needing the machine to take over more of his life. He was desperate to stay connected to it.
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Fetish Fridays: Sploshing
Posted by Vixen as PSO Confessions, Fetish Fridays at 10:05 PM CST
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I want to do a theme day where I post about a certain subject. For now I’m experimenting with Fetish Fridays and posting about interesting and unusual fetishes.
Today’s fetish is Sploshing. Bill Shipton, creator of Splosh magazine, defines sploshing as “Put at its simplest, sploshing is about getting wet or messy for sexual pleasure. You can do it with food, mud, paint, or just get in the shower in your best business suit. You can do it with your clothes on or off, alone or with a partner.”
He goes on to explain in an Eyeshot interview:
“You can use practically any foodstuff you fancy, you can go and roll in the mud if you prefer (though I’d wait till it gets warmer) or play about with poster paints. Sex in the shower with your clothes on is pretty bloody good and all . . . Simply splosh in what you fancy the feel of. Some like the idea of baked beans or spaghetti squishing round their bits, others enjoy sticky things likes syrups and sauces that can be licked off. Chocolate sauce, cream, and custard are probably the most popular — along with custard pies and cakes either for sitting in or smearing over each other. It’s best to start with things you like the taste of, and in fairly small quantities.”
I’ve never sploshed myself. Although I will admit there is something erotic about dipping into a bathtub full of chocolate…
Posted by Vixen as Fetish Fridays at 7:20 PM CST
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