Comments on: Reality Check: Handling Long Calls https://radicalvixen.com/blog/2007/11/23/reality-check-handling-long-calls/ Peace. Porn. Politics. Sun, 18 May 2008 11:59:39 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=1.5 by: Mandy https://radicalvixen.com/blog/2007/11/23/reality-check-handling-long-calls/#comment-86572 Sat, 24 Nov 2007 22:38:44 -0600 https://radicalvixen.com/blog/2007/11/23/reality-check-handling-long-calls/#comment-86572 Now if only there was a way to apply that to in-person appointments! Now if only there was a way to apply that to in-person appointments!

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by: Lotus https://radicalvixen.com/blog/2007/11/23/reality-check-handling-long-calls/#comment-86882 Mon, 26 Nov 2007 21:47:54 -0600 https://radicalvixen.com/blog/2007/11/23/reality-check-handling-long-calls/#comment-86882 I get the super-long calls sometimes and the thing that always throws me with them is if I drink enough to help me stay awake, I need to pee, and I don't let just ANY of the guys I talk to hear me pee. Other than judicious use of the mute button, I haven't figured out a way around that one yet. The hilarious times are when I'm filling a teapot for some green tea and one of them thinks I'm peeing, when I've carefully used the mute button and "That's fascinating, tell me ALL ABOUT IT" line to get him chatting so I can get a break. Sometimes you can't win for loosing, right? :) I found your blog through Sugasm and voted for it. I'm new and I really like what you've got to say so far! I get the super-long calls sometimes and the thing that always throws me with them is if I drink enough to help me stay awake, I need to pee, and I don’t let just ANY of the guys I talk to hear me pee.

Other than judicious use of the mute button, I haven’t figured out a way around that one yet.

The hilarious times are when I’m filling a teapot for some green tea and one of them thinks I’m peeing, when I’ve carefully used the mute button and “That’s fascinating, tell me ALL ABOUT IT” line to get him chatting so I can get a break.

Sometimes you can’t win for loosing, right? :)

I found your blog through Sugasm and voted for it. I’m new and I really like what you’ve got to say so far!

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by: Marky D. Sade https://radicalvixen.com/blog/2007/11/23/reality-check-handling-long-calls/#comment-87281 Wed, 28 Nov 2007 07:26:23 -0600 https://radicalvixen.com/blog/2007/11/23/reality-check-handling-long-calls/#comment-87281 I love your blog, Vixen, for it's practical, no nonesense perspective of the sex biz. thanks! I love your blog, Vixen, for it’s practical, no nonesense perspective of the sex biz. thanks!

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by: Vixen https://radicalvixen.com/blog/2007/11/23/reality-check-handling-long-calls/#comment-87776 Thu, 29 Nov 2007 23:12:36 -0600 https://radicalvixen.com/blog/2007/11/23/reality-check-handling-long-calls/#comment-87776 Mandy-Hehe. You'd have a hard time trying to explain while you're shuffling in place. Lotus-Glad you like the blog. I'm with you-I don't let just anyone hear my pee. I'm picky about it. MDS-Ahh, thanks you! Mandy-Hehe. You’d have a hard time trying to explain while you’re shuffling in place.

Lotus-Glad you like the blog. I’m with you-I don’t let just anyone hear my pee. I’m picky about it.

MDS-Ahh, thanks you!

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by: Wanklogger https://radicalvixen.com/blog/2007/11/23/reality-check-handling-long-calls/#comment-88159 Sun, 02 Dec 2007 05:01:01 -0600 https://radicalvixen.com/blog/2007/11/23/reality-check-handling-long-calls/#comment-88159 I must admit my ignorance on this was staggering. I had always figured calls were a few minutes, 10 tops. I have to say though, your patience/ability to focus on a task puts mine to shame! If I had been able to keep that level of focus during university, things would have been better. One question though, you say some people cum multiple times, fair enough. For me, afterwards, the refractory period deems any sort of activity strongly off limits - it is just too uncomfortable. Do your long call clients have shorter refractory periods, or do you chat about the weather? Great post! I must admit my ignorance on this was staggering. I had always figured calls were a few minutes, 10 tops.

I have to say though, your patience/ability to focus on a task puts mine to shame! If I had been able to keep that level of focus during university, things would have been better.

One question though, you say some people cum multiple times, fair enough. For me, afterwards, the refractory period deems any sort of activity strongly off limits - it is just too uncomfortable. Do your long call clients have shorter refractory periods, or do you chat about the weather?

Great post!

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by: Odoriko https://radicalvixen.com/blog/2007/11/23/reality-check-handling-long-calls/#comment-88377 Mon, 03 Dec 2007 05:59:02 -0600 https://radicalvixen.com/blog/2007/11/23/reality-check-handling-long-calls/#comment-88377 A very interesting post, I have just stumbled upon your blog. keep it up! A very interesting post, I have just stumbled upon your blog. keep it up!

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by: Amber https://radicalvixen.com/blog/2007/11/23/reality-check-handling-long-calls/#comment-88495 Tue, 04 Dec 2007 09:51:13 -0600 https://radicalvixen.com/blog/2007/11/23/reality-check-handling-long-calls/#comment-88495 So, what if you have to pee? I guess that's what the mute button is for? So, what if you have to pee? I guess that’s what the mute button is for?

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by: Las Vegas Courtesan https://radicalvixen.com/blog/2007/11/23/reality-check-handling-long-calls/#comment-88515 Tue, 04 Dec 2007 13:35:30 -0600 https://radicalvixen.com/blog/2007/11/23/reality-check-handling-long-calls/#comment-88515 Found your site... love it and will add it to my feed! Its nice to read someones blog about a different side of the business only pertaining to phone calls. I am used to doing things in person but think people who have good phone skills have quite the talet. Found your site… love it and will add it to my feed! Its nice to read someones blog about a different side of the business only pertaining to phone calls. I am used to doing things in person but think people who have good phone skills have quite the talet.

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by: The Fellatio Artist and The Geek https://radicalvixen.com/blog/2007/11/23/reality-check-handling-long-calls/#comment-89777 Tue, 11 Dec 2007 13:43:38 -0600 https://radicalvixen.com/blog/2007/11/23/reality-check-handling-long-calls/#comment-89777 I smiled at the image of the knitting PSO. My wife remembered her mother used to crotchet during her PSO stint. Just an aside here, her mother did a lot of different jobs in the sex industry to support her small family. She found PSO the hardest for reasons I don;t really understand. Apparently she felt she had to be more present and real on the phone for it to work. In person she could check out and actually watch TV over the clients shoulder. I smiled at the image of the knitting PSO. My wife remembered her mother used to crotchet during her PSO stint. Just an aside here, her mother did a lot of different jobs in the sex industry to support her small family. She found PSO the hardest for reasons I don;t really understand. Apparently she felt she had to be more present and real on the phone for it to work. In person she could check out and actually watch TV over the clients shoulder.

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by: Vixen https://radicalvixen.com/blog/2007/11/23/reality-check-handling-long-calls/#comment-90822 Mon, 17 Dec 2007 18:43:00 -0600 https://radicalvixen.com/blog/2007/11/23/reality-check-handling-long-calls/#comment-90822 Wanklogger-You bring up a good point. I should do a blog post just on cumming! It depends on the type of orgasm I think. Many callers have an orgasm from anal play but not an ejaculatory orgasm. Anal orgasm can happen several times on a call. Sissies or guys heavy into feminization have non-ejaculatory orgasms many times before cumming in the more traditional sense. Odoriko-Welcome and glad you like the blog! Amber-The mute button definitely comes in handy for peeing. Sometime though I can time it so a guy into golden showers can hear me pee for real. LVC-Glad you like the blog. I too enjoy reading blogs about different parts of the industry. :) TFAATG-Oh my goodness that is so cool. I always get excited to hear about other crafty psos. Thanks for sharing. Wanklogger-You bring up a good point. I should do a blog post just on cumming! It depends on the type of orgasm I think. Many callers have an orgasm from anal play but not an ejaculatory orgasm. Anal orgasm can happen several times on a call. Sissies or guys heavy into feminization have non-ejaculatory orgasms many times before cumming in the more traditional sense.

Odoriko-Welcome and glad you like the blog!

Amber-The mute button definitely comes in handy for peeing. Sometime though I can time it so a guy into golden showers can hear me pee for real.

LVC-Glad you like the blog. I too enjoy reading blogs about different parts of the industry. :)

TFAATG-Oh my goodness that is so cool. I always get excited to hear about other crafty psos. Thanks for sharing.

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