Comments on: Freebies https://radicalvixen.com/blog/2009/10/02/freebies/ Peace. Porn. Politics. Fri, 30 Mar 2012 14:10:58 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=1.5 by: Jimbo Jones https://radicalvixen.com/blog/2009/10/02/freebies/#comment-161502 Sat, 03 Oct 2009 19:20:06 -0500 https://radicalvixen.com/blog/2009/10/02/freebies/#comment-161502 I have the feeling it's because most people think of sex as fun and not work. They can't establish an idea that you're doing this purely for the cash and that the fun is a nice after-effect. Or sometimes not, as far as I've read of your journeys... :P Being in that they think it's fun, not work, they still think you'll get something out of it if you hand over a freebie. Thus, by calling you up and asking for a freebie, they think they're doing you a favour, even if it's significantly reduced from the favour they think they should be doing you. Possibly a good tack is "I'm here to do you a favour, but only for cash. You're doing me no favours barring paying me for the favours I give you." At least with new clients. Or maybe it's not such a good idea. I've never been too good with people. :P I have the feeling it’s because most people think of sex as fun and not work. They can’t establish an idea that you’re doing this purely for the cash and that the fun is a nice after-effect. Or sometimes not, as far as I’ve read of your journeys… :P

Being in that they think it’s fun, not work, they still think you’ll get something out of it if you hand over a freebie. Thus, by calling you up and asking for a freebie, they think they’re doing you a favour, even if it’s significantly reduced from the favour they think they should be doing you.

Possibly a good tack is “I’m here to do you a favour, but only for cash. You’re doing me no favours barring paying me for the favours I give you.” At least with new clients. Or maybe it’s not such a good idea. I’ve never been too good with people. :P

]]> by: Alexia https://radicalvixen.com/blog/2009/10/02/freebies/#comment-161576 Mon, 05 Oct 2009 05:30:10 -0500 https://radicalvixen.com/blog/2009/10/02/freebies/#comment-161576 I used to visit the free chats at one of the camera places. It was astounding at how many of the other free chatters were offended when the ladies went offline to do a session. It was like they owed them something for being there and chatting non-stop. Some of the women were just talkative to those that showed up as payers. The ones that seemed the best at having customers were friendly to all those that were chatting. It still amazed me how stupid sounding other non-paying visitors thought the ladies should do stuff for free. I used to visit the free chats at one of the camera places. It was astounding at how many of the other free chatters were offended when the ladies went offline to do a session. It was like they owed them something for being there and chatting non-stop. Some of the women were just talkative to those that showed up as payers. The ones that seemed the best at having customers were friendly to all those that were chatting. It still amazed me how stupid sounding other non-paying visitors thought the ladies should do stuff for free.

]]> by: Padlocksj https://radicalvixen.com/blog/2009/10/02/freebies/#comment-161582 Mon, 05 Oct 2009 09:32:56 -0500 https://radicalvixen.com/blog/2009/10/02/freebies/#comment-161582 No, Professionals don't give out freebies. But there are usually ways to get referals and opinions on workmanship. I found my Dentist by asking my friends who they went to. You can pre-screen a builder by seeing the work done at a previous client. Restaurants get their own reviews in the local newspaper. Hey! maybe I have found a new profession, the professional PSO Reviewer. Clients pay to read my reviews of PSO, organied by regions. If I become successful enough, I can take kick-backs from the PSOs. That's one way to get a freebie. No, Professionals don’t give out freebies. But there are usually ways to get referals and opinions on workmanship. I found my Dentist by asking my friends who they went to. You can pre-screen a builder by seeing the work done at a previous client. Restaurants get their own reviews in the local newspaper.
Hey! maybe I have found a new profession, the professional PSO Reviewer. Clients pay to read my reviews of PSO, organied by regions. If I become successful enough, I can take kick-backs from the PSOs. That’s one way to get a freebie.

]]> by: Mistress Nicole https://radicalvixen.com/blog/2009/10/02/freebies/#comment-161608 Tue, 06 Oct 2009 03:37:06 -0500 https://radicalvixen.com/blog/2009/10/02/freebies/#comment-161608 Funny thing happened to me lately. I have always refused to have "personal slaves" (which is like doing freebees withing BDSM). Now I am setting up my Sinistrycastle (sinsitrycastle.wordpress.com) and I will be needing some extra hands. So this guy, a freelance chef-cook asks for a session and implies he wants a longer relationship serving me. Enthousiasticly I comment him (via email, in which he proudly adds his professional-cook-website) that later on I might need his services and do "personal swaps".... WRONG IDEA!!! He started to anulate dates (with stupid excuses), but comming back into contact again after that, asking for other dates to do the first session... Just to de-confirm them later!!! So, darling: NO FREEBEES WHATSOEVER! (they will just run away once they have a responsability towards you!) Funny thing happened to me lately.

I have always refused to have “personal slaves” (which is like doing freebees withing BDSM).
Now I am setting up my Sinistrycastle (sinsitrycastle.wordpress.com) and I will be needing some extra hands.

So this guy, a freelance chef-cook asks for a session and implies he wants a longer relationship serving me.
Enthousiasticly I comment him (via email, in which he proudly adds his professional-cook-website) that later on I might need his services and do “personal swaps”….

WRONG IDEA!!!

He started to anulate dates (with stupid excuses), but comming back into contact again after that, asking for other dates to do the first session…
Just to de-confirm them later!!!

So, darling: NO FREEBEES WHATSOEVER!
(they will just run away once they have a responsability towards you!)

]]> by: Vixen https://radicalvixen.com/blog/2009/10/02/freebies/#comment-161649 Tue, 06 Oct 2009 21:31:22 -0500 https://radicalvixen.com/blog/2009/10/02/freebies/#comment-161649 JJ-Good point. The freebie requests do have a feel of "doing me a favor" even though of course it isn't. Alexia-I've come across that too in the bdsm community. Some people have a hard time accepting the fact that I'm kinky in my personal life but am also a pro-dom. Padlocksj-Online reviews would be the only way to do it since guys usually don't talk about their sex worker interactions. MN-Agreed! Reality and Erectionland don't mix well. JJ-Good point. The freebie requests do have a feel of “doing me a favor” even though of course it isn’t.

Alexia-I’ve come across that too in the bdsm community. Some people have a hard time accepting the fact that I’m kinky in my personal life but am also a pro-dom.

Padlocksj-Online reviews would be the only way to do it since guys usually don’t talk about their sex worker interactions.

MN-Agreed! Reality and Erectionland don’t mix well.

]]> by: hotygirl https://radicalvixen.com/blog/2009/10/02/freebies/#comment-162094 Wed, 14 Oct 2009 02:39:32 -0500 https://radicalvixen.com/blog/2009/10/02/freebies/#comment-162094 There's no freebies nowadays when it comes to business.. it's hard to give a freebies, especially if you can't trust the person and that can loose your morale as well. There’s no freebies nowadays when it comes to business.. it’s hard to give a freebies, especially if you can’t trust the person and that can loose your morale as well.

]]> by: Vixen https://radicalvixen.com/blog/2009/10/02/freebies/#comment-166245 Mon, 14 Dec 2009 11:30:12 -0600 https://radicalvixen.com/blog/2009/10/02/freebies/#comment-166245 Hotygirl-Good point. Freebies these days are more like buy one get one free which is more like a discount. Hotygirl-Good point. Freebies these days are more like buy one get one free which is more like a discount.

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