From the Glory Holes FAQ at Sexuality.org:
“What is a glory hole?
A glory hole is generally defined as a small fist-sized hole between private video booths in an adult bookstore. It is placed about hip high for the average guy and is just large enough to place a man’s penis through to let the person on the other side perform whatever sexual activity he pleases on it.”
I’ve done a lot of calls featuring glory holes. While there are some porn sites that show women sucking cock, it’s on the whole a male activity. And while gay men certainly use them, my experience has been talking to the married men that have a fetish for the holes of glory. These clients almost always identify as straight. An overwhelming number of them are married.
The appeal, in addition to the anonymous sex of course, is the no strings attached aspect to the glory holes. Married men can have a tryst and go back to their normal lives with their heterosexuality still intact, in their minds.
There’s a whole code of conduct surrounding glory holes. A sample:
“3.2 If you want to be the person who cums:
1. Go into a booth; close and lock the door, if possible.
2. Drop some money in the video machine.
3. Sit if you wish but standing up is the generally accepted indicator that you are not willing to play with anyone else.
4. Expose your genitalia (usually by dropping your pants) and get hard. You will find it more difficult to get someone to play with you if you don’t have at least a half-mast hard-on.
5. Wait for someone to stick their finger through the glory hole.
6. Put a rubber on now if you want. Place your penis through the hole. Some guys will just play with you; others will suck you; a few will want you to penetrate them anally.”
Posted by Vixen as Fetish Fridays at 8:53 PM CST
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From Ask the Therapist via sexuality.org:
“Many SM and DS interactions achieve their erotic edge through the consensual assumption of inequality between Master or Mistress and slave or other property, Dominant and submissive, or other form of Top and bottom. It is an easy call, therefore, to use degradation and humiliation to establish, enforce, or reinforce the presumptive power disparity. In addition, some people enjoy making or emphasizing such distinctions (or having them made or emphasized) by the Top’s belittling, insulting, or otherwise debasing the bottom.”
Many of my callers are turned on by humiliation. Sometimes it’s just light name calling-they’re a slut, whore or naughty boy. Other times it’s a full fledged scene-I strip the submissive down in front of mistress friends, tie him to the coffee table and invite my guests to take turns fucking him with their strap-ons.
Humiliation comes in many forms. A juicy list of ideas can be found at sub-dom.
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Robotism-attraction to or the use of robots in sex play. For more information see the Alt.Sex.Fetish.Robots FAQ V 3.0
I’ve only had one client call me about robot sex. He wanted to be strapped down to a machine that fucked and abused him 24/7. This machine also fed him, bathed him and drained his bladder and intestines.
He would start the fantasy as an innocent victim. I was an evil/mad scientist who kidnapped him for my sex machine experiments. The more I described the details of the device-the straps for restraining him, the tubes to collect his fluids-the more he panted and moaned.
This was new territory for me. I made most of it up on the spot, having no prior experience with sex machines or robots. He came hard and loud-I had to turn down my phone volume. At the beginning of the fantasy he pretended to fight, professing to hate the machine. By the end, he was begging for more, needing the machine to take over more of his life. He was desperate to stay connected to it.
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I want to do a theme day where I post about a certain subject. For now I’m experimenting with Fetish Fridays and posting about interesting and unusual fetishes.
Today’s fetish is Sploshing. Bill Shipton, creator of Splosh magazine, defines sploshing as “Put at its simplest, sploshing is about getting wet or messy for sexual pleasure. You can do it with food, mud, paint, or just get in the shower in your best business suit. You can do it with your clothes on or off, alone or with a partner.”
He goes on to explain in an Eyeshot interview:
“You can use practically any foodstuff you fancy, you can go and roll in the mud if you prefer (though I’d wait till it gets warmer) or play about with poster paints. Sex in the shower with your clothes on is pretty bloody good and all . . . Simply splosh in what you fancy the feel of. Some like the idea of baked beans or spaghetti squishing round their bits, others enjoy sticky things likes syrups and sauces that can be licked off. Chocolate sauce, cream, and custard are probably the most popular — along with custard pies and cakes either for sitting in or smearing over each other. It’s best to start with things you like the taste of, and in fairly small quantities.”
I’ve never sploshed myself. Although I will admit there is something erotic about dipping into a bathtub full of chocolate…
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