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September 30th, 2007

Bush Aide “Hates All Iranians”

Debra Cagan

From The Mail On Sunday:
I hate all Iranians, US aide tells MPs

“Britsh MPs visiting the Pentagon to discuss America’s stance on Iran and Iraq were shocked to be told by one of President Bush’s senior women officials: “I hate all Iranians.”

And she also accused Britain of “dismantling” the Anglo-US-led coalition in Iraq by pulling troops out of Basra too soon.

The all-party group of MPs say Debra Cagan, Deputy Assistant Secretary for Coalition Affairs to Defence Secretary Robert Gates, made the comments this month.”

If I wasn’t so cynical I’d be shocked. But I’ve been reading several news stories that tell of a coming war with Iran. I certainly hope not.

Posted by Vixen as News at 11:57 PM CDT

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September 29th, 2007

Sexy Socks

Sexy socks

Accessories can so make a picture. Those socks are sizzling! I’d guess they came from Sock Dreams, which is a heavenly site.

Posted by Vixen as Sexy Sensations at 9:40 PM CDT


September 28th, 2007

Fetish Fridays: Pony Play

JT Stockroom's pony play mask

From Deviant Desires:
(note: when you click on the Deviant Desires link it takes you to their site map, click on “Pony Play”)
“Ponygirls and ponyboys may act as show ponies, cart ponies or riding ponies. Show ponies receive gait training, where they attempt to imitate the canter, trot or run of a “real” show horse.”


“Although some human ponies enjoy being whipped and beaten, most prefer a more loving, affectionate relationship. As one ponygirl puts it, “I wouldn’t beat my own horses, so why should I be beaten? I am a proud and beautiful animal!” Some ponyboys and girls thrill to positive reinforcement and firm leadership rather than punishment, and may select favorite treats such as sugar cubes and carrot sticks.”

Through the years I’ve gotten a handful of pony play calls. I know a bit about the BDSM world of pony play. The calls I get about ponies don’t really resemble it. I get the sissy ponies. My readers that were children of the ’80s probably remember My Little Pony. (I had a lot of those ponies and loved them.) Playing with sissy ponies is very similar to how I played with My Little Ponies as a girl.

I do up their hair with ribbons and bows. Sometimes we dye the hair to look more feminine. We go to the pony salon (See, Erectionland accommodates everyone!) to get his hooves painted, usually with glitter nail polish. We redesign the stable in soft pastel colors to make it tailored for a girly horse.

We have special pony tea parties where other Mistresses join us with their sissy ponies. Inevitably we mistresses decide that the sissy ponies need to put on a little show for us. We get a male slave to join us. He’s dressed up as a male horse stud and fucks all the sissy ponies for our pleasure. The mistresses get so turned on that we grab the pony harnesses to force the sissy ponies to worship our pussies after the pony orgy. Sissies and pony sissies tend to be enjoyable calls because the clients treat it as “fun time”.

The mass orgy of course never happened when I played with My Little Ponies. My Barbie’s though got pretty kinky as I wrote about in this post.

Fetish Fridays
Fetish Fridays: Sploshing
Fetish Fridays: Robot Sex
Fetish Fridays: Humiliation
Fetish Fridays: Glory Holes
Fetish Fridays: Shoe Fetish
Fetish Fridays: Achoo!
Fetish Fridays: Tickle Fetish
Fetish Fridays: Doggy Boy
Fetish Fridays: Smoking Fetish
Fetish Fridays: Latex Love
Fetish Fridays: Furries
Fetish Fridays: Exhibitionism
Fetish Fridays: Chastity

Posted by Vixen as PSO Confessions, Fetish Fridays at 11:47 PM CDT


September 27th, 2007

If Only Wifey Knew

“I like incorporating you into my marriage.”
-Cum Guzzler

This was during a call where he called his wife so I could hear her voice. I was talking to him on his cell phone. CG called her cell from his land line and put her on speaker phone. I remained quiet and listened to them talk about normal things (what was for dinner, picking up a few things from the grocery store) for a few minutes before he hung up with her.

Posted by Vixen as Quote Book at 9:57 PM CDT


September 26th, 2007

Blackwater News


From Alternet:
US Military Official: Blackwater “May Be Worse Than Abu Ghraib”
“To describe the ongoing Blackwater scandal as a fiasco would be a dramatic understatement. Not only do we have a situation in which private security contractors stand accused of killing Iraqi civilians without provocation, we also have deep divisions brewing between the Pentagon and the State Department, coupled by State stonewalling a congressional investigation.”

From the Washington Post:
U.S. Repeatedly Rebuffed Iraq on Blackwater Complaints
“Senior Iraqi officials repeatedly complained to U.S. officials about Blackwater USA’s alleged involvement in the deaths of numerous Iraqis, but the Americans took little action to regulate the private security firm until 11 Iraqis were shot dead last Sunday, according to U.S. and Iraqi officials.

Before that episode, U.S. officials were made aware in high-level meetings and formal memorandums of Blackwater’s alleged transgressions. They included six violent incidents this year allegedly involving the North Carolina firm that left a total of 10 Iraqis dead, the officials said.”

I’ve read about Blackwater before the latest scandal hit. They’re always creeped me out. Hell, even their name is creepy. Makes me think of horrible pollution and death.

Posted by Vixen as News at 9:32 PM CDT

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September 24th, 2007

Sugasm #98

Sugasm #98

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #99? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

Note: Details of the Sugasm #100 celebrations will appear in Tuesday’s post request.

This Week’s Picks
Anal, her perspective
“This entire anal sex episode had started some months earlier, on a theoretical level.”

When the Muse Wants to Fuck
“Participles, linking verbs, superlative adjectives… You want more?”

“He’s already at work, but he’s left an order behind on the scraps of ordering paper that we have all over the house.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
The Secret Diary of a Callgirl

Editor’s Choice
Whipped on this day: 1791

More Sugasm
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See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.

Erotic Orchid courtesy of Erotic Garden.

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September 23rd, 2007

Sex Work And Religion: The Pagan And The Jew

Saint Mary Magdalen

As a Pagan December 25th is just another day for me. However, since most stores are closed I tend to stay home and enjoy a quiet day. I make a point to leave my phone on though. Why? It’s not like I get many calls. But usually I get one call that day. And holiday calls tend to be distinctive.

One Christmas a new client called. I’ll call him Christmas Client. We had a great first call. CC wanted to do a role play where he smarted off to me in a store. Then I bent him over a table and spanked him. Spanking fantasy calls are some of my favorites. He was creative and responsive. The fantasy was a fun one that we both enjoyed. It turned out to be a strong first call.

But the best part happened after he came. CC was one of those guys that like to chit chat after orgasm. He commented that he was surprised I was working that day. I said I was Pagan so today was just a normal day. CC responded that he was Jewish so he wasn’t celebrating Christmas either.

We talked longer about being non-Christian during the year’s’ biggest Christian holiday. Despite being from two different religions we had a lot of similar experiences. After being wished a Merry Christmas for what felt like the thousandth time that December both of us had some gripes to air. I try to be very accepting of other religions but sometimes I just need to blow off some steam. So did CC. We bonded over being pressured to “just celebrate Christmas anyway”.

CC is one of those “irregular regular” clients. I tend to hear from him once, occasionally twice, a year. He’s called me again on Christmas and we’ve again swapped our “Christmas survival” stories. I tell him of being preached to at Wal-mart. He tells me of friends giving him Christmas presents for Hanukkah because “they’re the same holiday anyway”. Sharing our stories relieves the stress we of different religions often feel around Christmastime. It feels good talking to someone that can relate.

Sex Work And Religion Series
Sex Work And Religion: Monotone Man
Sex Work And Religion: Sacred Pussy, Controlled Womb
Sex Work And Religion: The Violent Priest

Posted by Vixen as PSO Confessions at 11:25 PM CDT

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September 22nd, 2007

NZ Streaker

NZ Streaker

From Stuff:
No complaint on Marc Ellis streak
“Police say they will not charge television personality and former All Black Marc Ellis for streaking at a provincial rugby match in Greymouth unless they receive a complaint.

Saturday’s match between West Coast and King Country was marked by Ellis’s 200m nude dash from behind the main stand, across the field and across an adjoining ground in the second half.

Ellis ran on the opposite side of the field of play, with his fist in the air, whooping occasionally.

A spectator said he thought most of the crowd of about 300 found the sprint amusing.

“I thought it was quite legendary, a bit of fun. Even though he’s famous, he’s a bit of a larrikin. I didn’t see any harm in it – some people would, though,” he said.”

Posted by Vixen as Musings at 11:47 PM CDT


September 21st, 2007

Sex Worker/Blogger Movie

Belle de Jour

Reading Sugar Bank earlier today I found out about the new tv movie The Secret Diary of a Callgirl. You can watch a preview here.

Secret Diary of a Callgirl is based on the sex worker blog Belle de Jour. How cool! It must be so surreal to watch a movie based on your life.

Posted by Vixen as Sex Workers at 11:49 PM CDT


September 20th, 2007


Nude in bathroom

I took a bath myself today. It was nice and hot and I soaked until my fingers were wrinkled.

Posted by Vixen as Sexy Sensations at 9:09 PM CDT


September 19th, 2007

Giving It Up

“I’ll pamper you with my wallet and my mouth and my ass.”
-new caller within the last few weeks

Posted by Vixen as Quote Book at 10:57 AM CDT

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September 18th, 2007

The Famed Toilet

larry craig

From The Idaho Statesman:
Tourists flock to Minneapolis airport men’s room

When you go to Minneapolis, you might put the Mall of America, the statue of Mary Tyler Moore or maybe even the zoo on your list of things to see.

Now tourists are asking about a new destination in the Twin Cities, says Karen Evans, information specialist at the information counter at Minneapolis-St. Paul International Airport.

A common request is, “Excuse me, can you please tell me where the Larry Craig bathroom is?”

Evans was just 15 minutes into her shift Friday afternoon and already had heard the request four times.

“It’s become a tourist attraction,” Evans said with a smile. “People are taking pictures.”

This is the funniest thing I’ve read all day. I love that the “Craig bathroom” has become a tourist destination. Someone should start selling tshirts. “I went to Larry Craig’s bathroom for some cheap gay sex and all I got was this tshirt.”

Posted by Vixen as News at 9:47 PM CDT

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September 17th, 2007

Sugasm #97

Sugasm 97

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #98? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks
The Manifesto of the Cuntcentric Hedonist
“I’m not being selfish, I’m being altruistic when I open my legs and offer my body up.”

No reservations, part 4
“By this time, said balls felt twice their normal size and very full.”

Sex Work And Religion: The Violent Priest
“We were to seduce one of the young ladies in the church’s choir.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
JBS Underwear

Editor’s Choice
The Top 10 Reasons to avoid “Pregnancy & Sex” bulletin boards

More Sugasm
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See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.

Amy courtesy of 24.7

Posted by Vixen as Sugasm at 11:01 PM CDT

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September 15th, 2007

Sex Workers Live Blogging Action

Bound Not Gagged

From the $pread Blog:
Sex Workers: Call to e-Action!

Who: Desiree Alliance and Friends

What: Live-blog response to Farley

When: September 17, 2007 Beginning at 3pm PST 6pm EST and going all night


Why: The mainstream media (msm) buys Farley’s point of view without any care or concern for those who actually work in the sex industry. BNG is where sex workers go to respond to the media blackout that distorts and ignores our voices. We will put an end to Farley’s lies!

Are you tired of ‘researchers’ like Melissa Farley using lies and manipulation to demon-ize your work? Are you sick of reading article after article written by journalists who go for all of her sensation without digging deeper for the REAL stories of people working in the sex industry?

Now is your chance to speak out! is hosting a live- blog event Monday, September 17th, 2007. Articles and blogs about Farley’s recent visit to Las Vegas will be linked to the blog. These links are also available below. This blog event is an opportunity for sex workers and our allies to respond to the lies and hypocrisy that have dominated this debate!

Please take a few moments this weekend to prepare a post that you can put up on the blog, respond to other posts and make comments out in the public arenas. All sex worker comments and stories are welcome! Some angles that would be especially helpful are: critiques of Farley’s research from experts (however one defines oneself as so,) stories from workers who have participated in Farley’s research, stories of Farley’s abuse and manipulation of international allies when researching in other countries, summaries and links to credible research, experiences from workers in Nevada, community-based peer research experiences, etc.

More information and how to RSVP can be found here.

I’d also like to send out a thanks to Bound, Not Gagged for mentioning my Palfrey Interview.

Posted by Vixen as Activism, Sex Workers at 11:43 PM CDT

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