On one hand the stripes galore in this gallery are cheesy. But the more I look the cooler it becomes.
Posted by Vixen as Sexy Sensations at 11:59 PM CDT
April 11th, 2007
Candy Stripes Galore
April 9th, 2007
Sugasm #74
The best of this weeks blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #75? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.
This Week’s Picks
History: Marlene on the Wall (http://thismuse.blogspot.com)
“3AM, showering, head, his hands soapy on my breasts, I’m thankful I’ve dropped weight, the water is warm and cool enough to feel like bed.”
Afternoon Debauchery (http://junohenry.wordpress.com)
“Occasionally he’d push it further inside me, from where it had involuntarily escaped due to slickness and enthusiastic vibrations.”
Too Many Choices (http://bikersballsandteacherstits.blogspot.com)
“We’d been naked most of the time since getting here on Friday, so I wasn’t surprised when I reached under her skirt and found that she wasn’t wearing any panties.”
Mr. Sugasm Himself
Circumcision? Bullshit. (http://sugarbank.com)
Editor’s Choice
Spanking Models Run For Charity, AKA Bums on the Run (http://adelehaze.com)
Posted by Vixen as Sugasm at 9:34 PM CDT
April 8th, 2007
Indonesian Playboy Indecency Case Update
Last year I blogged about the Indonesian Playboy editor and top model being named as suspects in an indecency case against the magazine. Recently there was a ruling on the case.
From SF Gate:
Playboy editor in Indonesia beats charges
“The editor of Playboy Indonesia was cleared Thursday of charges that he published indecent material, but opponents said they will continue their campaign against the magazine in court.
The publication, which does not contain nude pictures, “could not be categorized as pornography,” ruled presiding District Judge Efran Basyuning. Its editor, Erwin Arnada, also is protected by press freedom laws enacted after the 1998 resignation of former dictator Suharto, the court decided.”
Posted by Vixen as News at 11:30 AM CDT
April 7th, 2007
Anticipation
“I already love the taste of your shit even though I haven’t tasted it yet.”
-Toilet Boy Slut
he seems so sure of this too
Posted by Vixen as Quote Book at 10:33 PM CDT
April 6th, 2007
A Client Has Died
Today I found out a client of mine has died. I’m feeling a lot of different things about him right now. Sera suggested processing things for awhile before writing about it and I’m taking her advice.
So why am I writing this post? Part of me just wants to make a note to myself about this day-I’m not sure why. He didn’t die today but it’s the day I discovered he had.
Posted by Vixen as PSO Confessions at 11:42 PM CDT
April 5th, 2007
And The Winner Is
Chesire! Please check your inbox for an email from me.
Thanks everyone who entered. I hope to have future contests so stay tuned. :)
Posted by Vixen as Musings at 10:46 AM CDT
April 4th, 2007
She’s On Top Book Tour
Today’s my day on Rachel Kramer Bussel’s virtual blog tour. I just finished She’s On Top last night. The book starts out strong with Suit and Tie by Donna George Storey. A woman works as a temp in the financial district and discovers a willing submissive under a domineering suit. This one was one of my favorite stories in the collection. It caught my attention from the first paragraph, the characters and situation were both erotic and realistic (an important combination for me) and the ending was superb.
Rachel also sent me an excerpt to share with you. It’s from the story about a prodomme so it’s funny she sent it to me. How’s that for a mind for details?
Excerpt from “The Mistress Meets Her Match” by Kristina Wright
If you’ve never squeezed a man’s balls in your hand and seen the terror in his eyes, you haven’t known power. If you’ve never cracked a whip and watched a man flinch, you haven’t known anticipation. And if you’ve never had a man grovel at your feet, you haven’t known what it means to be a bitch goddess. These men who come to me, hearts pounding, cocks hard, know who I am and they know what they want. Because I am a benevolent bitch goddess, I usually give them what they want, but not before they suffer.
I came the first time a man begged for mercy while I whipped him. It was the most amazing sensation and I was nearly faint with the effort to remain standing and continue the session. I have always suspected I was more easily aroused than the average woman, but to come without being touched, to come without even thinking about coming—now, that was a heady experience. I barely acknowledged my grateful slave as I crumpled into a chair and slid my hand beneath the leather crotch of my panties. There, glistening on my fingertips, was proof of my arousal.
I’d fallen into being a dominatrix because of a need to pay my bills, and yet I’d found something much more rewarding—personal fulfillment. From then on, I reveled in the feel of the whip or crop in my hand, the cries of men who desired pleasure in the form of pain. It became as addictive as a drug, this ability to control men. I discovered that not only was I good at it, I needed it. It was enough, for a while.
My sex worker anniversary is this month so I’ve been musing on being a professional mistress for the past couple of weeks. This made me read The Mistress Meets Her Match with interest. In it Mistress Katarina discovers that the excitement she gets in her pro sessions has seeped into her personal fantasies. If you’re not a prodomme you’ll probably like the story. As a professional mistress I’m torn. The story is well written, no doubt about that. But I don’t see how a domme would fail to realize her own kinks until a lover tells her. We deal with sex on a daily basis. Discovering a person’s fantasies, especially the deep, hidden ones is part of the job description. How can doing this day in and day out not lead to personal reflection?
I’ve been thinking how as a phone mistress I’m not dominating much of the time. When men tell me they want to talk about whatever I want to talk about or that they’ll do anything to please me I know that’s it’s not true. That is my cue to figure out their kink. The trick is to repackage it as my kink. Why? I think that it helps them feel acceptance, that they’re not the only one with such desires. Or sometimes it lets them off the hook. They can pretend it’s not their kink at all and put the “blame” on me. This is especially true of homophobic men who secretly want to suck cock.
The essence of professional domination was summed up in a line in Pinch by Tara Alton. The story, about a man who craves to be pinched, ironically is not about prodomming. At first I was intrigued because I know nothing about pinching fetishes. But the story seemed rushed and I felt the fetish was barely explored. Also, the “dominant” woman doesn’t really do much dominating. Her comment of “So, you tell me what to do to you, and you submit to it?” sums up the story.
As disappointed as I was by the story that line stuck with me. It seems to illustrate the difference between personal bdsm and professional bdsm.
In personal bdsm I feel it’s more of a partnership. Fantasies are discussed and the participants act out a part. Each person benefits from the play. Professional kink is mutually beneficial sure, I get paid after all. But the focus is on fulfilling the client’s fantasy. No matter how much a prodomme professes to love her client’s fantasy at the end of the day it’s still the client’s fantasy. I enjoy giving spankings in my private life and while I can enjoy a spanking pro session there is always a separation for me. As Tara Alton alluded to “they tell me what to do to them and they submit to it.”
One of my favorite stories in the book was Ottoman Empress by Noelle Keely. Yoga plays a major role in the plot. How exciting to read that someone else thinks yoga’s as sexy as I do. It took me by surprise and I was utterly delighted.
I read Room 2201 by N.T. Morley with interest. It’s a good story but what really got my attention was that it mirrored one of my work calls. In it a woman takes a submissive man to a hotel room to get fucked by another man. The thing read just like my client Cum Guzzler’s fantasy, like she had taken notes while listening to my conversation.
Penelope the Punisher by Stan Kent was a disappointment. The sexual details are one’s that don’t excite me-Mommy play and castration. But I can appreciate a well written fantasy. My problem with the story was that it jumped too quickly to the action. There’s one paragraph that gives the backstory and poof things are happening so fast I was left confused. What was the backstory? Why were the characters motivated?
One story I didn’t expect to like was Feeder by Adelaide Clark. When I read the title I guessed correctly that it would deal with the feeder/feedee fetish. I’ve never understood the fetish of feeding someone to make them obese. But Clark’s story isn’t a thing like that. The food is sexualized and the act of feeding turned into a sensual ritual. An added bonus-the meal she describes in the story sounds delicious.
Would I recommend this book? Definitely. Female domination is explored in so many different ways in She’s On Top that in addition to giving the reader some exciting fantasies it will probably give them kinky ideas to try out.
And don’t forgot you can win your own copy of She’s On Top. Just write a comment to my post A Contest For My Readers. You must enter a valid email address (it won’t be published) so I can contact you for a mailing address if you win. I’ll pick the winner late this evening so if you haven’t entered yet today’s your last chance. The winner will be announced tomorrow.
Posted by Vixen as Reviews at 11:21 AM CDT
April 3rd, 2007
Evil Black Hoodies? Who knew?
Interrogated for wearing black? Really, anarchists should start wearing pink and lace just to fuck with the authorities. Seriously though, this is a perfect example on why it’s good to donate money to civil liberties groups.
From The Washington Post:
Police Log Confirms FBI Role In Arrests
“A secret FBI intelligence unit helped detain a group of war protesters in a downtown Washington parking garage in April 2002 and interrogated some of them on videotape about their political and religious beliefs, newly uncovered documents and interviews show.
(snip)
The probable cause to arrest the protesters as they retrieved food from their parked van? They were wearing black — a color choice the FBI and police associated with anarchists, according to the police records.”
Posted by Vixen as News at 10:27 PM CDT
April 2nd, 2007
Sugasm #73
The best of this weeks blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #74? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the linklist within a week and you’re all set.
This Week’s Picks
Dawn Tryst ( http://junohenry.wordpress.com)
“The soft noises intensify as he shifts himself once more so that he is turned towards her and his fingertips on her body are mimicking hers on his own.”
The G-Spot Mystery Revealed OR “ACK! Go Back to My Clit” (http://shayssexcolumn.blogspot.com )
“So, since I’ve succumb to the pressure, let me at least reveal to you the things you might not know about the g-spot, the things Cosmo doesn’t want you to know.”
M Hotel 2 ( http://thenakedrhetoricaltruth.blogspot.com)
“I watch his face as his hands pull me open, and then I close my eyes, my arms stretched above my head, as he lowers his face.”
Mr. Sugasm Himself
Sexy Advertising (http://sugarbank.com)
Editor’s Choice
Farewell to Cain of “Bottoms Up!” (http://sexblogwelcome.blogspot.com)
Sexy Rookie Babe courtesy of Eroticandy Blog.
Posted by Vixen as Sugasm at 10:29 PM CDT