This gallery shows how lighting can greatly influence a shoot. I like how the photographer played with shadow over the model’s body.
Posted by Vixen as Sexy Sensations at 9:56 PM CDT
May 13th, 2007
Dramatic Lighting
May 12th, 2007
Axis Of Evil Comedy Tour
Mr. Radical and I are hanging out with Sera this weekend. She turned us onto this show called the Axis of Evil Comedy Tour. The comedy tour consists of three main comics-Ahmed Ahmed, Aron Kader and Maz Jobrani. The tour sometimes features other comics. The DVD included comic Dean Obeidallah.
I highly recommend this DVD. It is hilarious! I was laughing so hard my sides hurt. Better yet check out their website for a chance to see them in person.
Posted by Vixen as Musings at 11:56 PM CDT
May 11th, 2007
Reflections on the Foot Slut
When I saw the Fabulous Foot Slut in February I was initially annoyed with the last minute nature of the session. But since it’s a couple months later and he still mentions our time together I’m glad I went to see him.
How different his memory of the session is than mine. He remembers being a slut and serving his Mistress. FFS tells me how he loved licking my feet and remembers exactly how my toes tasted. He remembers painting his toes bright red and wants to do it again.
I remember him choking up with tears as he held my feet to his cheeks. I remember FFS begging to take his work clothes off so he could put his wife’s lingerie on. How his hands shook when he put on the heels I had brought. How the clock seemed to run twice as slow as soon as he walked through the door.
He hadn’t seen me in almost a year so this meeting was more emotional on his end. For me it was a smooth session. He didn’t try to touch me inappropriately, he didn’t complain about the price and he didn’t try to stay after his time was up.
But there was a moment during our session that troubled me. We were on the bed and he was holding my feet. He likes to cuddle them while he naps. He curls up to my feet as I sit there, holding myself still. He holds my feet next to his cheeks as I whispers assuring words. After a time he drifts off to sleep. If I stop talking he wakes up and asks me to continue. I whisper again and listen to him snore for about a third of the time we’re together. A client that likes to fall asleep during a session? This is a sex worker’s dream!
Yet I felt pity for him. Take away the clothes, the posing, the nail painting and the foot worship and what is left? Companionship. He was holding me feet in an intimate way as if we were a couple. He needed to feel close to me. This time on the bed was easily the most difficult of the session because it was so intimate. It felt so raw.
At first I thought it was pathetic. Here’s a grown man paying to cuddle with a stranger’s feet while he falls asleep. Pathetic right? But I didn’t think that for long. Why? He started to cry. He held my feet and smiled, kissed them and cried because it had been so long since he last held them. I felt so sad for him. Here was a man that so desperately wanted to cuddle my feet he flew me to his city to see me for a few hours. Just holding my feet gave him such happiness.
I could have moved to the next part of our session. At this point I had yet to spank him or have him paint his toes. But I sensed he needed this intimate time with my feet. We stayed like that-me holding still and murmuring sweet nothings, him hold my feet and softly crying-for over an hour. When we finally did move his cheeks were wet but he was smiling.
Posted by Vixen as PSO Confessions at 11:15 PM CDT
May 9th, 2007
Amorous Couple Caught On Plane
Sounds like the Mile High Club is pretty much dead now, at least for US flights.
From ABC News:
California Man May Go to Prison for Inappropriate Touching on Plane
“A California man may pay with prison time for a public display of affection on a plane.
Carl Persing was convicted Thursday of interfering with flight attendants and crew members after he and his girlfriend, Dawn Sewell, were seen “embracing, kissing and acting in a manner that made other passengers uncomfortable,” according to a criminal complaint.
According to assistant U.S. Attorney John Bowler, Persing will likely serve jail time for the federal felony conviction, the Associated Press reports. He was convicted after a three-day trial in U.S. District Court in Wilmington, Va.
According to an FBI indictment, Persing’s face was pressed to Sewell’s vaginal area during the September Southwest Airlines flight from Los Angeles to Raleigh, N.C. When a flight attendant gave them a second warning, Persing reacted angrily and the couple, both in their early 40s, were arrested when the plane reached its destination.”
Posted by Vixen as News at 11:13 PM CDT
May 8th, 2007
No No No
“Mistress, would you lick my ass?”
-drunk client
Posted by Vixen as Quote Book at 11:54 PM CDT
May 7th, 2007
Sugasm #78
The best of this weeks blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #78? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.
This Week’s Picks
Coming into my own: How I learned to masturbate (rubytellsall.com…)
“Eventually I could no longer help myself, and I stealthily slipped my hand under my panties.”
A Hard Day’s Play - part 3 (curvaceousdee.blogspot.com…)
“Together, they create a new sensation, and I savour being able to literally taste their coupling.”
Sexist Sexy Hotel Kits (blog.babeland.com…)
“Kind of sexist? How about completely, amazingly, disgustingly sexist.”
Mr. Sugasm Himself
Dancers for Democracy (sugarbank.com…)
Editor’s Choice
On my 31st birthday, I gave my boyfriend two blowjobs… (lustylady.blogspot.com…)
See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday (Fleshbot.com)
Posted by Vixen as Sugasm at 10:41 PM CDT
May 6th, 2007
Pill Patrol
The recent abortion decision from the Supreme Court is pretty depressing. Here’s some good activism to do to preserve what reproductive freedoms we still have.
Via Save Roe:
Join the Planned Parenthood Pill Patrol!
Every day in America, women are forced to play the lottery when they walk into their neighborhood pharmacies and ask for Plan B emergency contraception (EC). Planned Parenthood is launching a nationwide campaign to protect women’s health by ensuring that EC is available in every neighborhood in America. We need your help! Sign up to survey a store in your neighborhood now.
Posted by Vixen as Activism at 11:38 PM CDT
May 5th, 2007
Soft Skull Books Review
Soft Skull Press sent me two books to review. I just got-
A Woman Alone At Night by Tamara Faith Berger
“Mira, a young woman, gets caught up in her own sexual awakening which is dark and fast and demeaning. She meets an obsessive older guy named John who takes advantage of her willingness and steers her into amateur porn. When Mira meets Adi, a stripper who is older and wilder than her, Mira walks willingly into a harsh world of sex work where the girls don’t like her and the men are rough. It is on Adi’s turf that Mira enters into a strange relationship with Gio, a religious john who tests her at every step. Conflicted, Mira becomes a participant in her own degradation. As Mira’s cousin, Ezrah, tries to rescue her from “sin,” Mira goes deeper and deeper into “whoredom”, a state that she feels very connected to while growing conscious of its real and surreal danger.”
Wow! How about that back cover paragraph? The number of cliches about sex workers is disturbing. I’m trying to keep an open mind until I finish the book. However I’m only on p.17 and the prognosis doesn’t look good.
The Amputee’s Guide to Sex by Jillian Weise
“The Amputee’s Guide to Sex is an authentic exploration of disability and sexuality. Tired of seeing “cripples” appear as asexual characters in all forms of media, Weise took on a subject close to home: her own disability. This does not mean that these poems “happened” to Weise in real life. While based on the experience of an above-the-knee amputee, the poems have a life of their own.”
I’m not well versed in poetry so I’m hoping Sera will help me out with this one. It sounds like an intriguing book. It’s subject matter is one that doesn’t get much press so I’m guessing this will be an informative read.
Posted by Vixen as Reviews at 11:33 PM CDT
May 4th, 2007
Kent State Tape
From CNN:
Kent State tape: ‘Get set! Point! Fire!’
“CLEVELAND, Ohio (AP) — A static-filled recording of the 1970 Kent State University shooting that killed four students raises questions not only about whether someone called on National Guardsmen to fire, but also who might have given the order.
The tape was released Tuesday by Alan Canfora, 58, one of nine students wounded in the 1970 shootings.
He played two versions of the tape — the original and an amplified version — in which he says a Guard officer issues the command, “Right here! Get Set! Point! Fire!” (Watch scenes from the shooting and hear the tape )”
Posted by Vixen as News at 11:55 PM CDT
May 3rd, 2007
Armed and Talking
Guns have been in the news a lot lately. Instead of taking up the political discussion, and I do have lots of opinions on the subject, I thought I’d share a sex worker experience.
During my first year of working the phones I had a caller try to scare me. I didn’t realize this at first. We talked about his fantasy for awhile and it seemed like a typical call. But he slowly navigated the conversation to questions about my personal life. While I didn’t tell him anything too private I did tell him some things-the town I lived in, the kind of car I drove, what I looked like. He told me he knew my real name because the caller ID wasn’t blocked. (I block it now but in those days I was new and naïve.)
His tone shifted and became creepy. He said that he could track me down and find me. During the fantasy call he talked on and on about how he wanted to come to my house and fuck me. He asked what would I do if he did show up at my house one day. How could I possibly stop him?
Sometimes callers like to play out non-consentual fantasies. This was definitely not the case here. I don’t know if I can convey how I knew he was trying to scare me. I just knew. Call it a sex worker vibe.
My answer was simple. “If you tried to attack me I’d shoot you.” This startled the man. “You’d what?” he asked.
“If you attacked me I’d take one of my guns and shoot you.”
The plural of ‘gun’ unnerved him more. He tried to laugh it off like he didn’t believe me. The creepiness came back to his voice but it wasn’t as confident. He tried to replay the fantasy of tracking me down. He told me I really didn’t have any guns.
This made me laugh because one of them, a handgun, was within arm’s length of where I took calls at the time. He asked “If you really do have guns what do you have?”
While I didn’t own my beloved Kent (the AK47) hubby and I did own several guns back then. I started rattling them off. I scribbled a note to Mr. Radical to get the technical names because I often remember only their nicknames. I described every gun and then went on to describe the last time we went target shooting.
The man was shaken. I had taken away his power to frighten me. And honestly, I was frightened at first. Again, it was the sex worker vibe. The way he talked made the hairs on the back of my neck stand up. I sensed danger. After telling him I was armed that sense of danger went away. He backed down. “I’ll never come see you!” he spat as if I had asked him to come visit in the first place. He never called me again.
After I hung up with that man I was grateful for owning guns. I’m not foolish enough to think they’ll protect me from every danger but that night I felt safe.
Posted by Vixen as PSO Confessions at 11:19 PM CDT
May 2nd, 2007
Tasty
“You’re a yummy girl.”
-a client who regularly calls me while drinking vodka
Posted by Vixen as Quote Book at 10:51 PM CDT
May 1st, 2007
JFK Deathbed Confession
From Prison Planet:
JFK Murder Plot “Deathbed Confession” Aired On National Radio
“The “deathbed confession” audio tape in which former CIA agent and Watergate conspirator E. Howard Hunt admits he was approached to be part of a CIA assassination team to kill JFK was aired this weekend - an astounding development that has gone completely ignored by the establishment media.
Saint John Hunt, son of E. Howard Hunt, appeared on the nationally syndicated Coast to Coast Live radio show on Saturday night to discuss the revelations contained in the tape.
Hunt said that his father had mailed cassette the tape to him alone in January 2004 and asked that it be released after his death. The tape was originally 20 minutes long but was edited down to four and a half minutes for the Coast to Coast broadcast. Hunt promises that the whole tape will be uploaded soon at his website.”
Posted by Vixen as News at 11:44 PM CDT