The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #106? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.
This Week’s Picks
Bonbon
“I feel him start; then he groans into my mouth, a deep helpless sound, and I know I’ve got him.”
Domme virginity lost
I’m not asking you. I’m telling you. You know that, don’t you, sweet boy?”
Reality Check: Lessons Learned From Clients
“From my conversations I’ve learned a number of things that have helped me, educated me and surprised me.”
Mr. Sugasm Himself
Belladonna Likes Heroin
Editor’s Choice
Each Mirror has two sides
More Sugasm
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See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.
Erica Campbell courtesy of ErotiCandy.
Posted by Vixen as Musings at 6:29 PM CST
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Balancing meals and phone calls can be tricky for a pso. I can’t count the number of times that Mr. Radical and I have sat down at the table, picked up silverware to eat and the phone has rang. What to do? Do I eat and turn down the call or do I ignore my grumbling stomach and answer? Most times I’ve answered. But I’ve had to learn how to manage food and phone calls. Here’s some tips:
-Always have quick to eat foods in your kitchen. If I’m hungry and have a call scheduled I take five minutes to eat something first. Health food store cookies, cheese and crackers, salami, pickles, chips and salsa and cereal are excellent quick eats.
-Drink a smoothie while on the call. I’m a big fan of smoothies. Not only are they chock full of yummy fruits, they’re healthy and fill me up.
-Suck on Altoids or something similar. I find Altoids calm my stomach and put off hunger pangs for a bit.
-If you don’t have time to eat on a call ask the client to hold on while you take a bathroom break. If you can eat something in 3 minutes you’ll calm your stomach and won’t keep the client on hold too long. This one is a bit risky. The client may want to hear you go pee or may get upset being put on hold. Use sparingly.
-Turn the phone off for special meals. If Mr. Radical and I are having a romantic dinner or we’re going out to eat at a fancy restaurant I always turn my phone off. Stepping away from the phone now and then is an excellent way to prevent burn out.
-Learn to eat quickly. I’m in good shape and certainly no overeater but there are times I can inhale a meal like I’m at a food eating competition. This one takes time to master. If you eat too much too quickly you will upset your stomach and then you’ll feel nauseous on a call which is never good. I never practiced eating quickly. The skill just evolved over time. At first I was scarfing down some cheese and crackers before a call. Nowadays I can eat a full bowl of spaghetti in under five minutes. There is a downside to this. I often find myself eating fast out of habit. When I’m out eating I’m almost always the first one to finish my plate. I often have to remind myself to slow down and enjoy my food.
The next tip is for eating while on a call. Yes, I know it’s bad. But sometimes I’ve been talking on the phone for five hours, the client shows no sign of cumming and I’m dizzy from low blood sugar. A girl’s got to do what she can to keep the call going. Mind you if the call is for an hour or two I don’t do this.
-Learn what foods can be eaten silently. Mine are oatmeal, yogurt and biscottis dipped in coffee. Get the client to start talking, hit your mute button and take a few bites. Unmute, say something to get him talking more, hit mute again and take a few more bites. Repeat until you’ve finished your food.
Reality Check Series:
Reality Check: Getting Sick
Reality Check: Lessons Learned From Clients
Posted by Vixen as PSO Confessions at 6:31 PM CST
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Love Honey recently sent me an update on their Rabbit Amnesty project:
How Sex Toys Are Recycled
“Did you know that throwing away your old vibrator might damage the environment? All waste electrical and electronic equipment (WEEE), whether it’s TVs, toasters, computers or vibrators, can release toxins and pollute the environment when thrown into landfill.
As a result, the EU has introduced a directive aimed at reducing the environmental impact of WEEE by encouraging the reuse of electrical components and increasing recovery of raw materials from waste electrical products.
The legislation - known as Directive 2002/06/EC to its friends - has now passed into law into all EC member states. As of July 2007 in the UK, it is illegal to dispose of waste electrical and electronic equipment into landfill. Now, everything from your broken vibrator to your old Breville sandwich maker must now be disposed of properly.”
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“Instead of chucking your old vibrator in the bin, you can send them to Rabbit Amnesty and we’ll recycle them for you with the help of SWEEEP, a specialist waste electrical and electronic equipment (WEEE) processor.”
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You can watch of video of the sex toys getting recycled here. The recycling process is pretty cool. I wish they had some of these machines in the States. We could cut down on so much waste in the landfills! With all the depressing news lately this story made my hippie heart happy.
Posted by Vixen as Sex Toys at 11:25 PM CST
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Do that many porn models practice yoga to be more flexible? Or is this a developing niche?
I just did my yoga practice this morning. My favorite position is the tree pose.
Posted by Vixen as Sexy Sensations at 11:56 PM CST
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From Yahoo News:
Study: 1 out of 4 homeless are veterans
“Veterans make up one in four homeless people in the United States, though they are only 11 percent of the general adult population, according to a report to be released Thursday.
And homelessness is not just a problem among middle-age and elderly veterans. Younger veterans from Iraq and Afghanistan are trickling into shelters and soup kitchens seeking services, treatment or help with finding a job.
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Some advocates say the early presence of veterans from Iraq and Afghanistan at shelters does not bode well for the future. It took roughly a decade for the lives of Vietnam veterans to unravel to the point that they started showing up among the homeless. Advocates worry that intense and repeated deployments leave newer veterans particularly vulnerable.”
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Jeez, this is sad. But it’s also really upsetting. What happened to “support our troops”?
Posted by Vixen as News at 9:43 PM CST
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“I would love nothing more than to be with a human.”
-a new client
after we did normal phone sex we talked about cuddling in bed
Posted by Vixen as Quote Book at 11:46 PM CST
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Sadly, Sera from Lipstick Explosion, is discontinuing her blog. However, she is offering to sell the domain for the registration fee only. Are you a sex worker hoping to start a blog? Then this might be the perfect opportunity for you. Lipstick Explosion is a pretty good read so if you haven’t checked it out yet I’d suggest visiting before it’s gone.
From her entry Leaving My Blog:
“With sadness, I must tell you that I will not be writing this blog any longer. With my baby’s arrival just around the corner, and every day being busier than I can plan for it to be, I know I won’t be writing in a consistent fashion.
I’d hate for “lipstickexplosion” to become a splog, though. So, for the next month, I’m offering it for “sale.” By “sale,” I mean please write to me if you want to take over the registration fee and use this web space: [email protected]. Preference will be given for a sex worker’s space.”
Posted by Vixen as Sex Workers at 1:55 AM CST
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The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #105? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.
Editor’s Note: I thought it was Monday all day today. By the time I realized it wasn’t the new Sugasm had been up for a few hours. I’m just leaving it. The #105 post request will go up on Tuesday like normal.
This Week’s Picks
Awkward Sex Attempts (and Other Common Experiences)
“This put a slight damper on the “sexy” feelings I was trying to work up.”
Do You Want Me To Call You A Whore?
“Who doesn’t like having their hair pulled during sex?”
Two Fer
“Neither of us heard the front door open when Jason’s roommate came home.”
Mr. Sugasm Himself
Girls and Guns
Editor’s Choice
Being a Feminist in the sex industry
More Sugasm
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See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.
Posted by Vixen as Sugasm at 7:08 PM CST
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Through the years I’ve talked to a lot of men. From my conversations I’ve learned a number of things that have helped me, educated me and surprised me. This list is by no means complete but does show the variety of things I have learned from my clients.
-I have gotten great make-up advice from crossdressers
-men should add 2 sizes to their shoe size when buying heels to fit them
-with enough lube, time and patience a giant dildo can fit into an asshole (webcam show)
-how crossdressers convincingly stuff their bras
-that I should always use the same term the client uses to refer to his genitalia
-even though I have oily skin I should apply moisturizer to my face
-many men are just as nervous seeing a sex worker for the first time as we are seeing them for the first time
-where to get free porn online
-the many different ways to give an enema
-the difference between green asparagus and white asparagus is that the white hasn’t been exposed to sunlight
-where to buy wigs, fake boobies, sexy women’s clothing
-licking your phone too much will short it out
-how to properly diaper an adult baby
(being childfree I have never diapered a real baby)
-I have gotten great film, book and wine recommendations from callers
-the difference between sissies, sissy maids, sissy boys, sissy girls, sissy sluts, sissy whores and sissy babies
-the film Mrs. Robinson really did fuel the fantasy life of scores of men for years
-wild duck tastes better than farm raised
-some men think that talking to me is cheating on their wives, for others talking to me saves them from cheating on their wives
-the fantasy of getting woman pregnant really is a fetish for some and not an urban myth
-how to set up your voicemail so that it emails you a file of the message
-in a pinch rubber bands work wonders for a CBT session
-Victoria’s Secret staff are generally very understanding to men buying clothing for themselves
Reality Check Series:
Reality Check: Getting Sick
Posted by Vixen as PSO Confessions at 8:36 PM CDT
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From The Columbian:
Report: Curtis admitted tryst
“State Rep. Richard Curtis, R-La Center, admitted to having sex with a man he met at an adult video store in Spokane last week, according to a police report released Tuesday afternoon.
The police report offers a far different version of events from the brief account Curtis gave Monday to The Columbian, one that seems likely to threaten Curtis’ political future.”
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“The police report contains an account of how Curtis allegedly donned women’s clothing, red stockings and a black sequined lingerie top before engaging in a sex act at the store. He then continued to wear them throughout the night under his clothing, the report says.”
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“The two-term legislator and retired fire department captain was in Spokane last week for a retreat with other Republican lawmakers in preparation for the 2008 Legislature.”
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He crossdressed and had sex at a video store?! He so sounds like one of my callers. Someone seriously needs to develop a betting pool for the next Republican politician to resign over a gay sex scandal.
Posted by Vixen as News at 10:11 PM CDT
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