This is one of my favorite pictures from Martha’s Girls.

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The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #102? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks
Animal sex
“As he brings me there, his hands and mouth on me are rougher and rougher.”

Romeo and Juliet: A Different Perspective
“Catherine!” Elizabeth gasped between her thighs. “You are like heaven’s own scent.”

Summer of Content
“Under the cover of my long skirt, my legs are spread for him, and I’m dripping over his fingers.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
How to Hide Your Porn

Editor’s Choice
Tease

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Mischa courtesy of Badgirl’s Hotbox.

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This spring I got a call from a new guy. I’ll call him Crucifixion Client. Our beginning get to know each other conversation was stagnant. Sensing he was uncomfortable, I wrapped up the small talk and asked about his fantasy. (Beginning of the call chit chat usually takes about 5 min.) He said he needed to be punished. “Punished for what?” I asked.

CC told me he needed to be punished for looking at porn. Guessing the scenario I started a fantasy. I went into how I caught him looking at a porno mag while touching himself. CC interjected, saying he wanted to skip to the punishment. An essential skill in pso work is being flexible. He wanted to change directions so we did. I guessed he wanted a spanking and talked about putting him over my knee.

But I was wrong again. CC asked if three men could kidnap him and take him to a factory. Not knowing where this was going I said sure. He said “They take me there and torture me for looking at porn.”

Now when most men say they want to be tortured it usually means a heavy spanking or whipping. Very few callers want me to actually describe torture. CC was one of those callers. I talked about the three men whipping him. He wanted them to beat him with chains.

I started feeling uncomfortable. I don’t like heavy torture calls. They sort of squick me out. But ironically I’m really good at them. Mr. Radical and I are DIY types and we have a lot of tools. I never would have guessed that my ability to operate power tools would benefit my pso work. But oh how it does! During torture calls I run through the tools we own. Drills, our circular saw and-my meanest tool-the sawzall. Torture guys go crazy when they realize that I not only know what a sawzall is but know how to use one.

CC loved hearing about various tortures that involved my tools. He loved it and kept adding even more painful scenes. It was an unsettling conversation. I kept myself zenned out by knitting. Happy little stitches kept me calm and relaxed while I described scenes of intense pain.

He started to open up more. He suggested more implements that could be used on him. As I went into detail he would moan. Then he started saying he needed to be tortured over and over as if it were a chant.

CC wanted the three men to crucify him. He wanted to be nailed to a cross and be left to dangle. He wanted to be poked with a spear, “just like Jesus”. Except he wanted multiple pokes delivered all over his body. While we talked about the crucifixion scene he kept repeating that he needed to be punished for looking at porn. It was wrong for him to like porn. He swore he would never look at porn again. He was sorry he looked at porn.

During the crucifixion scene his apologies intensified until he came. Through the years I’ve heard a lot of men cum. As I wrote in my blog post The Sounds of Cumming- “I hear a lot of guys cum. Over the years I’ve noticed how certain types of people tend to cum in similar ways.” Repressed men make a type of cumming noise that sounds like it hurts. It’s a cross between a moan of pleasure and a moan of pain. The orgasm sounds like it is breaking out of them if that makes sense. I fancy that it’s because they bury their desires and fantasies so deep within themselves that the orgasm is in a real sense breaking out of them.

After cumming CC rushed off the phone. This is also typical of repressed men. They are often quiet and unresponsive at the beginning of a call. I think it’s nerves. They pushed down their desires so much that it’s hard to voice them even when they want to do so. During the fantasy they typically become animated and participate fully in the call. But once they come the guilt returns. They need to distance themselves from the fantasy and from me. After a repressed man cums he’s usually off the phone in less than 30 seconds. CC was off the call in less than 15.

Sex Work And Religion Series
Sex Work And Religion: Monotone Man
Sex Work And Religion: Sacred Pussy, Controlled Womb
Sex Work And Religion: The Violent Priest
Sex Work And Religion: The Pagan And The Jew
Sex Work And Religion: The Sex Crazed Pagan Cult Fantasy

Posted by Vixen as PSO Confessions at 10:31 PM CDT

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A few months ago I blogged about Make-up Absorption. I thought this would make a good follow up post.

From Reuters:
Lipsticks contain lead, consumer group says
“Lipsticks tested by a U.S. consumer rights group found that more than half contained lead and some popular brands including Cover Girl, L’Oreal and Christian Dior had more lead than others, the group said on Thursday.

The Campaign for Safe Cosmetics said tests on 33 brand-name red lipsticks by the Bodycote Testing Group in Santa Fe Spring, California, found that 61 percent had detectable lead levels of 0.03 to 0.65 parts per million (ppm).”

Posted by Vixen as Musings at 3:13 PM CDT

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“I’ve been imagining I’m an anorexic model who can’t eat.”
-regular client who likes to crossdress

This one totally blew me away. I wasn’t sure what to say. Anorexia is sexy? I don’t get it.

Posted by Vixen as Quote Book at 10:58 PM CDT

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Nipple Charms sent some jewelry to review. I got the seven petal nipple charms. Aren’t they cute!

They fit well but I don’t have pics of me wearing them. Why? I’m going to give them to a friend who’s recently become a sex worker. I thought these would make the perfect gift. I’ll try to get a picture of her wearing them.

The charms are of good quality and stay on well. Plus they are adorable. The shipping was quick too. Do I recommend them? Oh definately!

Posted by Vixen as Reviews at 1:28 PM CDT

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Recently I had an ad up for The Internet Escorts Handbook. Kelli, of Kelli’s Korner, bought the book and graciously wrote up a review for me.

Review for “The Internet Escort’s Handbook: Book 1 The Foundation” by Amanda Brooks
reviewed by Kelli

When Amanda Brooks says “Basic Mental, Emotional, and Physical condsiderations in escort work”, she really means it. Throughout this book, she repeatedly addresses all of these issues in a frank, but sensitive way.

I am a new escort, having my own independant business for only 2 months. I loved this book!!!! It confirmed for me, that yes, I made the right decision for me!! The book takes one on a walk to confront all of the questions one should ask themselves before starting. I felt like I got a pat on the back of encouragement to read further.

As I progressed through the chapters, reading her realistic views on the business, I was relieved to find out that I was already doing most things right. The author validated the research I had already done before starting. If only I had the book first!! But the book also addressed issues I hadn’t thought of yet…situations I haven’t yet encountered, and a couple of things that I was off-track on. For that, I am very grateful. Thank You Amanda!!

So far, I have read this book twice. I have no doubt, as I sit and wait for Book 2, that I will read parts of it 10 more times. I highly reccomend this book to anyone who has already begun their escort business, and for anyone thinking about starting…it’s an absolute MUST READ!!!

Posted by Vixen as Reviews at 11:13 PM CDT

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The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #101? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

Note: Usually I only post the top chunk of the Sugasm to save on space. Since this is the 100th issue I’m posting the whole thing.

This Week’s Picks
Do you want me…?
“The shiver that runs through you tells me everything I need to know.”

Love that ass (his perspective)
“But as long as we are in here, she submits to my command; to my every whim.”

Hubb and Spoeker
“He was good for show and good in bed, but an asshole in the real world.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
125 Magazine, Alternet and Enviromentally Friendly Porn

Editor’s Choice
The very best of Sugasm…. so far

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(Sugasm participants should re-post all the links above. The following links may be excluded as long as you include all the above links.)

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Being Stuck Outside
Dominance, Submission, Humiliation, Control
Miscarriage and Feminine Identity
The next colonel sanders or orville redenbacher
No more pen and sex
Sex on the first date???
What Is Mary Hiding?
Why “Sugasm” Matters

Sex Work
Do you like phone sex?
La Petite Mort
Sex Work And Religion: The Sex Crazed Pagan Cult Fantasy

NSFW Pics & Videos
I could watch her do laundry all day!
Just Teen Site Releases All New Nude Videos
Red Rose
Today’s Special Offer: Fresh Hamburgers

Sex News & Reviews
Belated Happy 2nd Blogiversary to My Bottom Smarts!
Fetish Film - How to Use Sounds (Urethral Sounds)
First Purity Balls, Now Integrity Balls
It’s HERE!!!! Miss Francy’s “Spanking the Male Mind”!
Team Up with the 6th Annual Blogger Boobie-Thon

BDSM & Fetish
Back To School
Catalina loves Chat
Dancing with the Devil, a D/s Relationship
The Dungeon: Sex Camp, Night One
Fuck of a Lifetime
Harder….
Heat
I Got Your Number
Manhandled
Mira
My Wife is a Skank! pt1
A Nawty Story: Diane Phones Home
Objets d’obsession: neck corsets
Our game
Piss Slut
Who is Elise Sutton and why does it matter?

Erotic Writing and Experiences
100 Sexy
An Affair with the Wind
Corseting Mrs. Russian
Burlesque: Home Coming
Gamahuche
I Succumb to Jefferson’s Dastardly Lesbian Plot!
More Than A Breast-Fondle
The Morning Rollover
Party Blowjob - Part 3

Kis Lee helps us celebrate the 100th Sugasm.

Posted by Vixen as Sugasm at 8:11 PM CDT

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Via the London Calling Luv blog:
Haggard Escort Tells Radio Station, ‘Craig visited me’

“The male escort responsible for the downfall of Christian evangelist leader Ted Haggard is now alleging that embattled Senator Larry Craig also came to see him.

While promoting his new book during a radio interview with KNWQ-AM in Palm Springs Wednesday night, Mike Jones hesitated from making the allegation on the air.”

Oh this is juicy. If true Senator Craig is turning out to be quite the hypocrite. But what about the timing? I did some searching:

From the Friendly Atheist:
Senator Larry Craig Visited Mike Jones (a.k.a. Ted Haggard’s Male Escort)
“When I interviewed Pastor Ted Haggard’s former male escort Mike Jones a couple months ago, he told me he was sitting on a juicy piece of information. It involved a fairly well-known person.”

(snip)

“But Jones was telling the truth about Haggard. I’d vouch that he’s telling the truth this time as well.

I should also mention my interview with him happened over two weeks before the Larry Craig bathroom scandal broke — Mike Jones is not all of a sudden creating this story to jump on the bash-Larry-Craig bandwagon.”

Posted by Vixen as News at 9:48 PM CDT

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It’s getting cold here and these spa pictures look so appealing.

Posted by Vixen as Sexy Sensations at 10:09 PM CDT

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When I started working the phone I never guessed that my religion would play a part in a fantasy. But many callers are fascinated that I’m Pagan. It’s as if being Pagan makes me more exotic. I can see their point of view. If someone has only grown up with mainstream religions, Paganism can seem pretty out there. I grew up in a small, very conservative, Christian town where many thought Mormons were “suspicious” and Buddhists were thought to be Satanic. I’m opposed to preaching my religion but don’t mind if people ask me questions during a call. I’ve done several sessions where I explain the basics of Paganism. But the more popular Pagan call is the Pagan Cult call.

It was my clients questions about my religion that inspired me to create one of my favorite call scenarios. I created a fantasy I call the Sex Crazed Pagan Cult Fantasy. In it I lead a cult of women in a ritual that revolves around my caller. I have a general scenario that can be tailored to the guy’s kink.

The women of the cult are all beautiful goddesses. Our kinky cravings drives us to find new sex slaves. Sometimes the men come to us willingly but often we kidnap him. Many of my callers fantasize about me kidnapping them, forcing them to break from their normal 9-5, married, 2.5 children, house in the suburbs routine.

After we have our captive we take him deep into a forest. If the client lives in a big city I go into great detail about the remoteness of the location. While I love being so deep in the woods I can’t see a road or hear any other humans, I’ve found many urban dwellers find this scenario scary. The setting makes the client feel vulnerable and completely dependent on me to get him out unharmed.

If he doesn’t do what we want we’ll abandon him to the wild. I make my captive strip down in front of the group. Naked and trembling he looks to me for further orders. At this point the fantasy branches off to fit the client’s particular kink.

Sometimes we tie him naked to a tree and begin whipping him. We list off his errors and promise that he’ll pay for his bad behavior. Each one of the coven members takes a turn at beating the captive. In these scenarios I like to end the beating with a birching to keep with the nature theme.

If it’s a forced bisexuality call the other coven members are Mistresses as well. They have all brought a male slave who is handsome, horny and well hung. I am bringing the caller into the coven as my new slave. The ritual is his initiation into our group. We arrange the male slaves in a circle. He is made to suck every cock but not allowed to make them cum. After the round of blowjobs comes the forced fucking. One by one each slave fucks and cums in his ass. When the last slave has shot his load my new slave is laid down. He is made to squeeze his ass, milking the cum from it into a goblet. We chant words of encouragement “cum slave, cum slave” as he drinks every last drop of cum. This last act seals him as a permanent sex slave to the group and usually makes the caller cum if he hasn’t already.

For golden shower calls I make the captive crawl to each woman. He kneels before her and begs/prays for her piss. The women shower him with their sacred pee. The holy urine cleanses him and he can join the cult as our sacred toilet.

This fantasy is so wonderful because it is so adaptable. I’ve incorporated all sorts of kinks-bondage, piercings, tattoos, brandings, humiliation, shaving. There’s a dangerous sexy vibe around cults. Lots of my callers really get turned on by The Sex Crazed Pagan Cult Fantasy. I’ve been interested in cults for years. I find them fascinating so these calls are really fun for me as well.

But sometimes I worry: Am I exploiting my religion? Am I perpetuating stereotypes by doing this type of call? I don’t think so. Certainly people can do research to find what Paganism is really about. And it would be naive in the extreme to think that all Pagans were secretly sex crazed kidnappers ready to snatch unsuspecting men out of cities to sacrifice them to some God of Lust. And just being a friendly, non-threatening Pagan breaks down stereotypes even if the fantasy perpetuates them. Right?

Sex Work And Religion Series
Sex Work And Religion: Monotone Man
Sex Work And Religion: Sacred Pussy, Controlled Womb
Sex Work And Religion: The Violent Priest
Sex Work And Religion: The Pagan And The Jew

Posted by Vixen as PSO Confessions at 11:37 PM CDT

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-”It’s like a pre-cooked brat and it needs to be reheated by a woman’s oven.”
-a new client describing his cock

Posted by Vixen as Quote Book at 10:59 PM CDT

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Sexy Bloggers-The Sugasm is about to turn 100! To join in this momentous occasion see the instructions below. Thanks to all the bloggers that have submitted over the past two years.

Submissions for Sugasm #100 close at 11:59pm PST this Thursday. The new Sugasm goes up Monday. If you’d like your blog featured, send us the link to your best sex blog entry for the week using this form.

Thanks to Juno Henry for her wonderful help with the Sugasm.

Little Minx helps us celebrate the 100th Sugasm.

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The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #100? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks
Don’t think..
“As you read this, you reach for your cock and stroke it slowly, in anticipation of our eventual meeting.”

I’ll be out in 2 mins, I’m just brushing my teeth…
“One centimetre at a time, he slid oh so slowly into me and then retreated out again.”

We all have Secrets
“I’ll give you a little reminder - it was when he and his wife were making me cum so hard that I blacked out.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Iris Bahr’s Festive World

Editor’s Choice
Letter to a Lover

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Monique Alexander courtesy of ErotiCandy.

Posted by Vixen as Sugasm at 11:06 PM CDT

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