This is one of my favorites from Martha’s Girls. Reminds me of Goddesses dancing or maybe muses.

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Fat can be sexy
“I understand what it’s like to be surrounded by images that reinforce that skinny is the ONLY way to achieve sexiness.”

Are Women Visual Critters, Too?
“With the invention of the internet, however, I think that it gets even more complicated.”

Marriage, Monogamy, and All that Jazz
“My chosen lifestyle and relationship type wasn’t making any sense to the other women.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
S Magazine

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Supply and Demand

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Amy of 24/7 courtesy of Kitchen Girls.

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From The Age:
Floating ‘condom’ promotes safe sex

“CONCERT-GOERS at a Dutch festival have been treated to an unusual sight: a hot air balloon 40 metres high, shaped like a condom, drifting across the sky.

The balloon, with the words “Vrij Veilig” — Dutch for “Safe Sex” — emblazoned on it, was launched by the public health service at the festival in Lichtenvoordein.”

Just think if a womb balloon were there for some reason. Hilarity would have ensued.

There’s a snippet from the end I wanted to include:

“Organisers said they plan to submit the balloon to Guinness Book of World Records in the category of “world’s biggest condom”.”

Should it really count? I mean technically it’s not a functional condom. Cool of them to promote safe sex though. Sadly, that wouldn’t fly here in the States.

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When a client dies it brings to light the odd relationship we had. On one hand our relationship was professional. They were a client and I was always Happy Sexy Mistress, eager to fulfill their every sexual fantasy. When the call ended our relationship dissolved in a sense until they called again to renew it.

On the other hand I often develop a sort of friendship with my clients. Yes they’re still paying for the sexy talk but sometimes it feels more personal. We can talk as friends before getting dirty. We can ask about each others lives and want real answers. Several callers tell me about their wives and children. When a much liked client calls me I genuinely smile because I know it will be a fun call.

It’s like we’re in a limbo relationship. Would I fulfill their fantasies for free? No. Would I be sad if some of my favorites stopped calling? Yes, definitely.

With that being said-Did I mourn the deaths of Crazy T and Latex Geezer? Yes and no. Both men lived long lives. Crazy T was able to fulfill many of his fanties, although his extreme torture fantasies stayed in Erectionland. While he got crazier with age I suspect, what I know of his history tells me he had a full life. I didn’t miss him on a personal level. On a professional level I did because he was such a great caller. I still feel a surge of gratitude when I think of CT. He really helped me by calling obsessively when I was in a financial bind and for that I’m thankful.

As for Latex Geezer? Again, it’s yes and no.

Despite our bickering LG was a part of my life. My clients are a part of my life and I a part of theirs. LG’s passing caused me to realize this. Initially this was a somewhat unsettling realization. Just because I hang up the phone doesn’t mean I stop affecting a client. I change their life. The effect is sometimes minuscule, occasionally profound but I guess mostly it lies in between. I give them something; I fulfill something. Clients open up and share a part of themselves with me that they often cannot share with anyone they know.

And my clients affect me as well. My humor is much more crude after doing this job for five years. I don’t live a “normal” life but add sex worker to my list of odd doings and I become even weirder. I have become a better listener and am more empathetic. I can see good in people that normally I would dislike immediately.

Latex Geezer was one of those people. His politics were extremely conservative, he had a streak of racism and bigotry, he was dismissive to people he viewed as beneath his class. He professed to worship women but expressed sexist sentiments. Though he infuriated me on a consistent basis, though we argued almost everytime we met, though he was a rude, demanding man I could see a good side to him. To most people LG was a successful, happy man. He had a loving marriage before his wife passed away, children and grandchildren who loved him and a long, successful career. But that is not the LG I knew.

I knew another side of the man. LG loved crossdressing. While he was honored in his profession I knew he wore panties to work almost every day. All the years of his loving marriage I knew he had pressured his wife to dress him up in panties and stockings; she occasionally indulged him but did so grudingly. It is true he loved his children but I knew he disliked their frequent stays at his home because it left him with no space to spread out his many, many sex toys and clothes.

In some respects his life was one of repression. He had so many desires. By the time he gave himself permission, his age and health had made realization of his fantasies limited. If he had started 10, or even 20, years earlier he could have done so much more.

No one in his personal and professional life mourned that side of him. But did I? Again, I have to say yes and no. I look at it more like reflecting and remembering his life. Since learning of his death I’ve tried to learn lessons from Latex Geezer. Our relationship became so convoluted but LG unwittingly taught me things. I will not repress my desires like he did. I will not deny my dreams. I will live life now instead of putting it off until I am too old and feeble to enjoy it. Is this mourning? Maybe. Perhaps it is the best way to deal with a client’s death. Our relationship is so mixed, so fluid and so hard to define that I expect mourning to be no different.

When A Client Dies Series
When A Client Dies-Part 1
When A Client Dies-Part 2

Posted by Vixen as PSO Confessions at 11:42 PM CDT

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I’m a big fan of Ghastly’s Ghastly Comic. Months ago Ghastly took a break from drawing his hilarious comic for personal reasons. How I missed my regular fix of tenacle monsters and the women who love them! I especially missed Drunk and Bitter Jesus. He was one of my favorite characters.

From time to time I’d check his site in hopes he’d start updating again. And today I found “Drawings from the gay bar”. Via his Live Journal posts it sounds like his life is on an upswing. I don’t know if he’ll start drawing the old gang regularly again but his newest drawings give me hope.

Posted by Vixen as Musings at 11:10 PM CDT

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I’ve done a few personal sessions wearing my glasses. The clients didn’t mind and said I looked sexy in them. But the real reason I picked this gallery is because I have those exact shoes. A client with a shoe fetish gave them to me.

Posted by Vixen as Sexy Sensations at 11:29 PM CDT

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“Oh oh oh! Three dollars a gallon of gasoline!”

-I was talking to a hyper client about him sucking my toes. While going into detail he shouts the above quote. I was taken completely off guard. What did toe sucking have to do with the price of gasoline? I asked him this and he explained himself. He was figuring out amount of gas it would take for him to drive to my location so he could suck my toes in person.

Posted by Vixen as PSO Confessions, Quote Book at 11:44 PM CDT

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Mr. Radical pointed this out to me today.

The Whitehouse Coup
“The coup was aimed at toppling President Franklin D Roosevelt with the help of half-a-million war veterans. The plotters, who were alleged to involve some of the most famous families in America, (owners of Heinz, Birds Eye, Goodtea, Maxwell Hse & George Bush’s Grandfather, Prescott) believed that their country should adopt the policies of Hitler and Mussolini to beat the great depression.

Mike Thomson investigates why so little is known about this biggest ever peacetime threat to American democracy.”

You can listen to the audio of the show here.

BBC: Bush’s Grandfather Planned Fascist Coup In America
“A BBC Radio 4 investigation sheds new light on a major subject that has received little historical attention, the conspiracy on behalf of a group of influential powerbrokers, led by Prescott Bush, to overthrow FDR and implement a fascist dictatorship in the U.S. based around the ideology of Mussolini and Hitler.”

(snip)

“The conspirators were operating under the umbrella of a front group called the American Liberty League, which included many families that are still household names today, including Heinz, Colgate, Birds Eye and General Motors.”

(snip again)

“The proven record of Prescott Bush’s involvement in financing the Nazi war machine dovetails with the fact that he was part of a criminal cabal that actively sought to impose a fascist coup in America.

Prescott did not succeed but many would argue that two generations down the line the mission has all but been accomplished.”

After listening to the audio I have to agree that Prescott Bush may have gotten his wish, albeit several decades later. Curious isn’t it that the grandson of Prescott Bush and the husband to the heir of the Heinz fortune would not only be in the Skull and Bones Society together but run against each other for president in 2004?

Posted by Vixen as News at 11:31 PM CDT

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who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #90? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

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Burlesque
“She performs astounding acts and swirls her perfect ass in circles, like the tassles on her tits.”

Nylon Whispers
“I run my fingers along every bit of my nylon covered flesh”

No Timeless Beauty To Conform To
“While fashions themselves come and go, so do the standards of beauty rise and fall like the heaving breasts of an excited woman.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Welcome to the Redesign

Editor’s Choice
Catalina loves (sex in) Sevilla

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Sexy teacher with an apple courtesy of Badgirl’s Hotbox.

Posted by Vixen as Sugasm at 11:07 PM CDT

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First off-to fans of Harry Potter there are No Spoilers in this post.

This morning I woke up and got back to my normal routine. Where have I been? Reading the last Harry Potter book almost nonstop. Mr. Radical and I got to our local bookstore for the midnight release. I read until 5am, he till 7. Saturday we both woke up and immediately started to read, read, read.

Friday night I took off because the long awaited book was finally in my hands. Next day I was going to take a call, I really was. I found myself getting extra snappy with prankers because I had to put down the book to listen to them waste my time?! It was extremely difficult to be nice everytime the phone rang. At about midnight I had 200 pages left and Could Not put the book down. Just stopping to refill was water glass was difficult enough let alone putting the book down for an hour to talk to some guy. I turned off my phone and continued reading.

Mr. Radical and I finished within minutes of each other. (We buy two copies so we won’t fight over the book. Then we donate one to the library.) It was about 2am and my head ached like it was overstuffed. Probably from putting so much information into it so fast.

Today it’s back to the real world. Back to sex work, back to blogging, back to mundane things like doing dishes. I owe several people email and you’ll be hearing from me soon.

(And if you haven’t read Harry Potter and think I just sound nuts-read the series. Trust me.)

Posted by Vixen as Musings at 10:41 AM CDT

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From the LA Times:
Billionaire sought secret lair for sex, drugs, complaint says

“Flush with wealth from Broadcom Corp.’s 1998 public stock offering, computer chip magnate Henry T. Nicholas III made a few additions to his equestrian estate in Laguna Hills: hidden doors and secret levers, an underground grotto, tunnels and a 2,000-square-foot sports bar he called “Nick’s Cafe.”

But there was more, according to a claim made in court documents: plans for a “secret and convenient lair” with hidden entries for Nicholas to indulge his “manic obsession with prostitutes” and “addiction to cocaine and Ecstasy.”

(snip)

Nicholas made no secret of the underground passageways and rooms under his Laguna Hills home, but the filing by James contended the subterranean complex was more elaborate than even Stacey Nicholas was aware of and ultimately cost $30 million over three years.”

Underground labyrinths, secret chambers, hidden sex rooms? Wow. This story reminds me of Scooby Doo. Well it does if you imagine the villian used his secrete lair for prostitutes rather than to scare off neighbors because there was really gold in the abandoned mine shaft. Does that make sense to anyone or am I just being weird here? Anyway, the article gives more tidbits about the hidden sex rooms so it’s definately worth checking out. I told Mr. Radical about this story and he says you need to login to read this story. Oddly, I didn’t have to but I don’t remember where I found the link. If you need a login go to Bug Me Not.

Posted by Vixen as Musings at 11:51 PM CDT

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“I’m a total goner for women’s vaginas.”
-from a fairly new caller

Posted by Vixen as Quote Book at 10:14 PM CDT

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There’s more on the Vitter scandal.

Via Yahoo News:
Vitter denies prostitution accusations
“Sen. David Vitter on Monday denied having relationships with New Orleans prostitutes, a week after admitting links to a Washington escort service that federal prosecutors allege was a prostitution ring.

(snip)

Also last week, the former madam of a New Orleans brothel that was shut down several years ago claimed Vitter was a client in the 1990s. However, her defense lawyer and a U.S. attorney who prosecuted her said Vitter’s name never came up in that investigation.”

Ironically Vitter was elected to replace Rep. Robert Livingston who resign after his infidelities became public.

Just because Vitter saw an escort does not mean they violated a law. He could have requested a strip show, a spanking or a golden shower-none of that is prostitution. Or he could have requested, as Wonkette reports, diaper play:

Diaperman David Vitter Likes His Diapers
“When Republican Senator David Vitter rented prostitutes back home in New Orleans, there was “more than sex” — he liked the hookers to make him wear diapers.”

When Vitter first admitted to his sins of the past I googled his name to see what he looked like. When I saw his picture I turned to Mr. Radical and said “There’s something about his face that gives off the perv vibe. But it’s different-like he’s an adult baby or something.” Of course we don’t know what Vitter did during his escort visits. However, I’m highly amused with the perv reading I got.

Let’s review Vitter’s stance on Clinton’s blowjob scandal via The Nation:
A Blast from Vitter’s Past
“In the fall of 1998, David Vitter felt compelled to weigh in on the national debate over the possible impeachment of President Bill Clinton for lying about sex. ”

(snip)

In considering impeachment, Vitter asserted, Congress had to judge Clinton on moral terms. Decrying the law professors’ failure to see this, Vitter observed, “Is that the level of moral relatively [sic] and vacuousness we have come to?” If no “meaningful action” were to be taken against Clinton, Vitter wrote, “his leadership will only further drain any sense of values left to our political culture.”

What has Vitter been up to since getting elected? Also from The Nation:
Vitter-Sweet on DC Madam
“Vitter, in yet another delicious slice of religious right hypocrisy, is one of the most outspoken social conservatives in the Senate. He co-sponsored legislation to federally finance abstinence-only education and called a ban on gay marriage the most important issue in the country today. He also told the New Orleans Times-Picayune that “infidelity, divorce, and deadbeat dads contribute to the breakdown of traditional families.”

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The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #89? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks
Kinky To Vanilla
“Now, each time we play with others, it’s a gift that further cements our closeness and shows us the value of our love.”

One For The Guys
“Get into the habit of building your sexual pleasure and indulging in it fully.”

When A Client Dies-Part 2
“As I drank my morning coffee I googled his name and “obit”. Up popped his obituary.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
A Porn Store Clerk Speaks

Editor’s Choice
Love at First Sight

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Virgin Princess Award Winner courtesy of Mistress 160’s Abode.

Posted by Vixen as Sugasm at 11:19 PM CDT

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