For my friend who collects rubber duckies.
Posted by Vixen as Sexy Sensations at 10:48 PM CDT
March 31st, 2007
Rubber Duckies
March 30th, 2007
Fetish Fridays: Exhibitionism
From Wikipedia:
“Exhibitionism (also known as Lady Godiva syndrome and Apodysophilia) is the psychological need and pattern of behavior to exhibit naked parts of the body to other people. In exhibitionism the individual shows a tendency to an extravagant, usually at least partially sexually inspired behavior to captivate the attention of others in a display of a body part, or parts, that would otherwise be left covered under clothing in nearly all other cultural circumstances.
(snip)
Exhibitionists who view exhibitionism as a lifestyle as opposed to a rare thrill carefully select their target audience and make the exposure brief, inconspicuous and apparently unintentional. It is a fetish, and many such practitioners see it as an art form.”
For a related item see Violet Blue’s excellent article Public Sex.
While researching this Fetish Friday I found Dick Flash, a forum for exhibitionists. From the information section:
“What’s the purpose of this site?
I set it up because I am a practising (practice makes perfect!) exhibitionist who is interested in learning more about the “condition” from a medical point of view as well as having meaningful discussions and sharing experiences. I found precious few (i.e. none) sites on the Net that cater for my exact requirements. Mostly “exhibitionist sites” are packed full of photos of naked women in public (or more commonly not-so-public) areas. While such sites would satisfy the normal hormone enraged teenager, exhibitionists themselves find it does not suit their particular desires.”
Mr. Radical and I once ran into some exhibitionists mid performance. We were with a group of people having dinner on the beach. Tired of the conversation and crowd we went for a quiet stroll. We walked for a ways down the beach and saw a man and woman in the water. At first I didn’t realize they were fucking, but as we continued down the beach it became obvious that the woman was strattling the guy. I can be quite naïve at times. I commented “Wait I think they’re…” to which my husband answered yes while laughing at me. We turned around to go back to our group.
Walking back the way we came we noticed a car parked near the water. There was a man sitting in the driver’s seat and the window was rolled down. He was masturbating while staring at the couple fucking. Were they aware of him? Did they know each other? Were they doing a show for him? There was a vibe in the air that indicated the couple and man were connected. It just felt like the event was planned that way.
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Posted by Vixen as Fetish Fridays at 8:43 PM CDT
March 29th, 2007
A Contest For My Readers
Rachel Kramer Bussel was kind enough to send me a copy of her new book She’s On Top to review. I’ll be taking part in her virtual book tour next month.
From the book description of She’s On Top:
“Turning the tables on rigid gender roles, the stories in She’s on Top honor the Amazon, the dominatrix, the handcuff-toting, whip-wielding she-devil of the male bottom’s deepest dreams. Employing every item in their bag of tricks, from strap-ons to metal cinches, these hot dommes like nothing better than teasing and tormenting their devoted subjects – often at the same time. With stories by some of the best writers in the field of BDSM erotica such as Stan Kent, Debra Hyde, and Saskia Walker, She’s on Top shows that pleasure’s best when dispensed by a firm female hand.”
Can’t wait to read She’s On Top? Then leave a comment to this post for a chance to win your very own copy. You must enter a valid email address (it won’t be published) so I can contact you for a mailing address if you win. The winner will be selected at random from the comments. My contest will end on April 4th, which is my day on Rachel’s tour. Good luck!
Posted by Vixen as Reviews at 9:12 PM CDT
March 27th, 2007
Harsh Dose Of Reality
“You don’t want one of your children to find their father wearing slut clothes do you?”
-me
The Fabulous Foot Slut was wearing his “slut clothes” ie his wife’s lingerie while doing a call with me recently. In a panicked voice he told me one of his children had come home unexpectedly. I told him to get off the phone and change back into his normal clothes. He hadn’t yet cum so was reluctant to change out of the panties, slip and stockings that he was wearing. I said the above quote in a harsh, slightlycatty tone. It did the trick. He snapped out of Erectionland and followed my orders.
I’ve talked to him since and he wasn’t caught.
Posted by Vixen as PSO Confessions, Quote Book at 9:30 PM CDT
March 26th, 2007
Sugasm #72
The best of this weeks blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #73? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the linklist within a week and you’re all set.
This Week’s Picks
Big-Titted Muses (http://middleurge.blogspot.com)
“In the span of fifteen seconds, these two lovers instantly own the room, the camera, the cock.”
Make it happen (http://junohenry.wordpress.com)
“Dip two strawberries in the chocolate, eat one and feed me the other.”
Water, Water Everywhere… (http://thismuse.blogspot.com)
“He pauses there, feeling the weight in his hands, then soaps my breasts, rubbing the nipples between his fingers and thumb.”
Mr. Sugasm Himself
Nathalie Portman is Naked (http://sugarbank.com)
Editor’s Choice
Control (http://lafillemariee.blogspot.com)
Jamie Lynn pic courtesy of ErotiCandy Blog.
Posted by Vixen as Sugasm at 10:08 PM CDT
March 25th, 2007
Hooters In Israel?
At first I didn’t think this story was real. Surely it was a fake news story from The Onion right? (On a related side note-Have you noticed the lame right wing cartoons on The Onion lately? What’s up with that?) But no, this one’s for real:
From Reuters:
Hooters heading for Holy Land
“U.S. restaurant chain Hooters, known for waitresses in low-cut blouses and short skirts, will open its first branch in Israel this summer, in the Mediterranean seaside city of Tel Aviv.
“I strongly believe that the Hooters concept is something that Israelis are looking for,” Ofer Ahiraz, who bought the Hooters franchise for Israel, told Reuters Monday. “Hooters can suit the Israeli entertainment culture.”"
Posted by Vixen as News at 10:31 PM CDT
March 24th, 2007
Goth Chick With Devil Doll
Goth chick with a devil doll? That’s a great pic. If you look at the gallery you’ll notice the devil doll has nipples which made me giggle.
Posted by Vixen as Sexy Sensations at 11:44 PM CDT
March 23rd, 2007
Halleluiah!
Raise a glass and toast! The Copa decision is in.
From Reuters:
Judge strikes down Internet porn law
“A 1998 law designed to block children from viewing pornography Web sites violates free speech rights, a U.S. federal court ruled on Thursday, in a blow to government efforts to restrict Internet smut.
The ruling sided with a challenge brought by the American Civil Liberties Union, which had argued that the provisions of the Child Online Protection Act were too restrictive and violated the First Amendment of the U.S. Constitution that protects free speech.”
From AVN Online:
Adult Industry, Right Wing Respond to COPA Decision
“Proving correct the U.S. Supreme Court’s intuition when in 2004 it upheld a preliminary injunction against the Child Online Protection Act, a U.S. federal court judge on Thursday ruled against the 1998 law designed to block children from viewing pornography on the Web, citing it violates free speech rights.
Judge Lowell Reed Jr. of the U.S. District Court in Philadelphia said parents can protect their children by employing software filters and other means that are less restrictive on the rights of others.”
Posted by Vixen as News at 9:53 PM CDT
March 21st, 2007
Possible Porn Connection
Now this is an interesting story. I’m hoping we learn more. For now I wonder, why is it ok for the government to sell porn but not alright for others to do the same?
From AVN, story originally found at The Impolitic:
Attorney Says Justice Dept. Sold Same ‘Obscene’ Material As His Client
“TEMPE, Ariz. - AVN noted Wednesday that one of the interesting aspects of the recent Justice Department (DOJ) firing of several U.S. Attorneys was that two of them – Paul Charlton of the District of Arizona and Dan Bogden of the District of Nevada – were canned because they were “unwilling to take good [obscenity] cases” that had been presented to them by the Justice Department’s obscenity unit. That unit is currently being run by former U.S. Attorney of Utah Brent Ward.
But as we were examining some of the documents in the one obscenity case that Charlton did file – United States v. Five Star Video, LC, et al – an interesting coincidence leapt out … and it’s one that the Justice Department may have found so embarrassing that Charlton’s firing may simply have been another casualty in the cover-up surrounding it. ”
Posted by Vixen as News at 11:48 PM CDT
March 20th, 2007
A Funny One
“I consider myself an excellent lover but I’m single now.”
-new caller
Posted by Vixen as Quote Book at 11:36 PM CDT
March 19th, 2007
Sugasm #71
The best of this weeks blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #72? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the linklist within a week and you’re all set.
This Week’s Picks
Roué (http://www.easilyaroused.co.uk)
“Her sighs of contentment build as my touch does its work.”
Wrong Number (https://radicalvixen.com/blog)
“They said clients were trying to call me and getting this restaurant instead.”
Ride to the Cabin (http://eroticawriter.blogspot.com)
“As he pulled into a dark lane that led into a grove of trees, I reached over to stroke him.”
Mr. Sugasm Himself
Loveland (http://sugarbank.com)
Editor’s Choice
Your hair (http://erotischism.blogspot.com)
Woman in G string courtesy of Tara Tainton.
Posted by Vixen as Sugasm at 10:41 PM CDT
March 18th, 2007
Love Honey Toys Review
What? You’ve never seen a zucchini wear a cock ring before? I got it like this at the grocery store!
Seriously, Love Honey sent me some new toys to review. First up is the Bada Bing Ring pictured above. Vegetable is optional. From their site:
“The ultimate cock ring makes you an orgasmic offer you can’t refuse - slide the super-chunky cock ring over his Big Tony and let the touch-activated clitoral stimulator make her sing like a canary!”
The designers of this cock ring did something clever. Throughout the ring there are little pieces of metal embedded into the material. When the vibrating nub is going the vibrations travel through the entire ring presumably because of these metal pieces.
There are two options for the vibrations via a tiny switch in the back. You can have it vibrate continuously but for added fun you can choose the other option where the ring only vibrates when something pushes against the front. The latter is my preferred way to use it. I’ve never been a huge fan of cock rings but the Bada Bing Ring is certainly a fun toy for occasional use. Those who are really into rings will definately get a kick out of it I think. The vibrating nub actually pops into the cock ring making cleanup easy, a nice touch.
I had to stick with my vegetable theme! Next is the Inch Perfect Vibrator. This was great timing on Love Honey’s part. I was in need of a new vibrator but hadn’t bought one yet. I have the Mini which is six inches, the larger size is nine. The Inch Perfect is the only vibrator with a ruler on the side that I’ve ever scene. From their web site:
“Unique among sex toys, Inch Perfect is the world’s first measure-up vibrator. The sleek cream finish is designed to perfectly off-set its special black markings - an Imperial and Metric ruler that lets boys and girls find out exactly how much fun they’re going to be able to have with each other.”
Is the ruler useful after it’s initial shock value? Surprisingly yes. I found myself “checking” the measurements during play. “Oh, that felt good, how deep was that?” I didn’t expect to learn more about my masturbatory likes while testing out the Inch Perfect but I did. That was a pleasant surprise.
The geek in me is thoroughly entertained that they put both inches and centimeters on the side. What a lazy way for us yanks to teach ourselves metric. The focus of the toy is clearly the measurements but the real gem is the cream finish. It’s velvety soft and feels fantastic against the skin. The finish alone makes this toy worth owning. The vibrations are good and the knob at the bottom is well made for quick adjustments in speed. I recommend it.
Posted by Vixen as Reviews at 7:14 PM CDT
March 17th, 2007
A Tired Vixen
Three hours into the call and it’s still going. I’m used to longer phone sessions but it’s been awhile since this particular client has called. I call him ADD Boy because he switches topics so fast. He also talks in a rapid fire manner and expects me to do the same. It’s pretty draining. Usually l turn my phone off after a call with him because I’m too tired to talk to anyone else.
I’m writing this on the phone. Does that mean I’m a live blogging sex worker? Hmm, I’m feeling loopy. Best to just publish this post now.
Posted by Vixen as PSO Confessions at 11:39 PM CDT
March 15th, 2007
Pervy Ambassador
Oh this news story is funny. Must have been a nightmare for the PR people though. My favorite part is he could only identify himself after the ball gag was removed. Priceless.
From BBC, found via Scanner:
Israel recalls ‘naked ambassador’
Israel has recalled its ambassador to El Salvador after he was found drunk and naked apart from bondage gear.
Reports say he was able to identify himself to police only after a rubber ball had been removed from his mouth.
A foreign ministry official described Ambassador Tzuriel Refael’s behaviour as an unprecedented embarrassment.
Posted by Vixen as News at 9:29 PM CDT